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God designed it to"},{"id":"1-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If we _____  dimension, we are ignoring the very God who created marriage, and the only one who can make it work.”","options":["renew their contract","follow his blueprint","people are connected","ignore the spiritual"],"correct":3,"proof":"If we ignore the spiritual dimension, we are ignoring the very God who created marriage, and the only one who can make it work.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Marriage is first and foremost a spiritual relationship. God designed it to…”","paragraphStart":"Marriage is first and foremost a spiritual relationship. 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corrupt God’s marriage design.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “From the beginning of mankind, Satan has done his very best to…”","paragraphStart":"From the beginning of mankind, Satan has done his very best to"},{"id":"1-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Consider a few of the lies that _____  our world, compared to the truth of the matter: Lie #1: Marriage in today’s world is outdated and over-rated.”","options":["finished my doctorate","ranging from creative","Satan currently tells","renew their contract"],"correct":2,"proof":"Consider a few of the lies that Satan currently tells our world, compared to the truth of the matter:","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “From the beginning of mankind, Satan has done his very best to…”","paragraphStart":"From the beginning of mankind, Satan has done his very best to"},{"id":"1-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Today, living together precedes more than half of all first marriages.2 A major _____  together is to learn more about their partner to see if they want to get married.”","options":["people are connected","follow his blueprint","reason couples live","obvious and subtle"],"correct":2,"proof":"Today, living together precedes more than half of all first marriages.2 A major reason couples live together is to learn more about their partner to see if they want to get married.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Anthropologists Nena and George O’Neill1 wrote: “Why, in a world of instant…”","paragraphStart":"Anthropologists Nena and George O’Neill1 wrote: “Why, in a world of instant"},{"id":"1-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The O’Neill’s conceived open marriage as one in which each partner can _____  including sex.”","options":["humanities’ first relationship","Architect become corroded","expecting another human","develop outside friendships"],"correct":3,"proof":"The O’Neill’s conceived open marriage as one in which each partner can develop outside friendships including sex.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Open Marriage: A New Life Style for Couples4 was a best-selling book…”","paragraphStart":"Open Marriage: A New Life Style for Couples4 was a best-selling book"},{"id":"1-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “And it found that highly religious _____  likely to engage in sex prior to marriage and more likely to describe their sex lives as “good” or “very good” than moderately—religious or non- religious women.”","options":["he used himself","plan which works","draw us closer","women were less"],"correct":3,"proof":"And it found that highly religious women were less likely to engage in sex prior to marriage and more likely to describe their sex lives as “good” or “very good” than moderately—religious or non- religious women.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “The Real Truth of the Matter: In the 1970s Redbook Magazine commissioned…”","paragraphStart":"The Real Truth of the Matter: In the 1970s Redbook Magazine commissioned"},{"id":"1-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and _____  to complete us is a form of idolatry.”","options":["Satan currently tells","Architect become corroded","expecting another human","finished my doctorate"],"correct":2,"proof":"The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and expecting another human to complete us is a form of idolatry.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and expecting…”","paragraphStart":"The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and expecting"},{"id":"1-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If we _____  to be ‘God’ to us, he or she will fail every day.”","options":["creatures so small","winters with salt","plan which works","expect our spouse"],"correct":3,"proof":"If we expect our spouse to be ‘God’ to us, he or she will fail every day.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and expecting…”","paragraphStart":"The Real Truth of the Matter: Spiritually speaking, looking for and expecting"},{"id":"1-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts” have tried to address the institution of marriage with recommendations _____  to crazy.”","options":["Satan currently tells","ranging from creative","finished my doctorate","people are connected"],"correct":1,"proof":"Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts” have tried to address the institution of marriage with recommendations ranging from creative to crazy.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts”…”","paragraphStart":"Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts”"},{"id":"1-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If a couple chose not to _____ , the husband and wife would each go their own way; no divorce would be necessary.”","options":["follow his blueprint","renew their contract","people are connected","ignore the spiritual"],"correct":1,"proof":"If a couple chose not to renew their contract, the husband and wife would each go their own way; no divorce would be necessary.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts”…”","paragraphStart":"Over the years, philosophers, social scientists and all manner of self-proclaimed “experts”"},{"id":"1-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “God, the master architect, designed marriage with a unique _____  only if we follow his directions.”","options":["he used himself","women were less","plan which works","expect our spouse"],"correct":2,"proof":"God, the master architect, designed marriage with a unique plan which works only if we follow his directions.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “We once heard an ad on the radio that said, “If you…”","paragraphStart":"We once heard an ad on the radio that said, “If you"},{"id":"1-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He designed it, he created it, he knows how it will work; our job is to study it and make every effort to _____  for our marriage.”","options":["people are connected","renew their contract","follow his blueprint","ignore the spiritual"],"correct":2,"proof":"He designed it, he created it, he knows how it will work; our job is to study it and make every effort to follow his blueprint for our marriage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “We once heard an ad on the radio that said, “If 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first job was in Boston; and while we really loved Boston, the long, harsh winters with salt on the roads took their toll on our beautiful car.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “The only new car that we ever owned was a 1968 GTO—what…”","paragraphStart":"The only new car that we ever owned was a 1968 GTO—what"},{"id":"1-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The marriages that are not “rust proofed” by following the design of the Master _____  and ugly.”","options":["Satan currently tells","Architect become corroded","expecting another human","develop outside friendships"],"correct":1,"proof":"The marriages that are not “rust proofed” by following the design of the Master Architect become corroded and ugly.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 1 — paragraph beginning “Like our brand–new GTO, many marriages look shiny and beautiful at the…”","paragraphStart":"Like our brand–new GTO, many marriages look shiny and beautiful at the"}]},{"number":2,"title":"Appreciate Your Differences","label":"Chapter 2 — Appreciate Your Differences","questions":[{"id":"2-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Yet, no masterful architect uses the same materials and designs in their work but _____  in texture, colors, and shapes.”","options":["beautiful opposite sex","meeting each other’s","prepared me emotionally","instead uses contrasts"],"correct":3,"proof":"Yet, no masterful architect uses the same materials and designs in their work but instead uses contrasts in texture, colors, and shapes.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “We have determined that God is a master architect who must be…”","paragraphStart":"We have determined that God is a master architect who must be"},{"id":"2-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In the beginning of a relationship, our physical differences are a _____  of our initial attraction.”","options":["want a hug","plan to help","he also 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God made men and women different from each…”","paragraphStart":"What an amazing beginning. God made men and women different from each"},{"id":"2-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “As we begin _____  together, we learn that we are VERY different, different in ways that we never imagined. and in many ways that we don’t understand.”","options":["four hundred miles","every other area","interest in people","sharing our lives"],"correct":3,"proof":"As we begin sharing our lives together, we learn that we are VERY different, different in ways that we never imagined. and in many ways that we don’t understand.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “As we begin sharing our lives together, we learn that we are…”","paragraphStart":"As we begin sharing our lives together, we learn that we are"},{"id":"2-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Using a telescope, the men discovered the _____  on Venus; they built spaceships to reach them and so began some wonderful relationships.”","options":["instead uses contrasts","beautiful opposite 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Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “Almost every married couple has fallen into the common trap of failing…”","paragraphStart":"Almost every married couple has fallen into the common trap of failing"},{"id":"2-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “These differences often divide us, because we don’t understand and appreciate them as being a part of his _____  us be better together.”","options":["nagging on my","want a hug","plan to help","he also wants"],"correct":2,"proof":"These differences often divide us, because we don’t understand and appreciate them as being a part of his plan to help us be better together.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “Almost every married couple has fallen into the common trap of failing…”","paragraphStart":"Almost every married couple has fallen into the common trap of failing"},{"id":"2-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The brain has two sides: the left side which is the _____  thought and the right side which is the base of emotions.”","options":["sharing our lives","base of logical","men usually find","every other area"],"correct":1,"proof":"The brain has two sides: the left side which is the base of logical thought and the right side which is the base of emotions.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “A significant difference is often in the way we think, solve problems,…”","paragraphStart":"A significant difference is often in the way we think, solve problems,"},{"id":"2-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The male brain is structured to think things through logically, and _____  it difficult to process while talking.”","options":["every other area","base of logical","sharing our lives","men usually find"],"correct":3,"proof":"The male brain is structured to think things through logically, and men usually find it difficult to process while talking.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “The male brain is structured to think things 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man by nature is typically more goal oriented, being strongly motivated"},{"id":"2-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Men tend to be more _____  that can be understood through logical deduction, and they are more challenge-and- conquer oriented.”","options":["preoccupied with practicalities","understood and connected","change dramatically during","recognize the fundamental"],"correct":0,"proof":"Men tend to be more preoccupied with practicalities that can be understood through logical deduction, and they are more challenge-and- conquer oriented.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 2 — paragraph beginning “A man by nature is typically more goal oriented, being strongly motivated…”","paragraphStart":"A man by nature is typically more goal oriented, being strongly motivated"},{"id":"2-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He is challenged by the goal of driving _____  a day; while she wants to stop now and then to drink coffee and enjoy the 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We…”","paragraphStart":"Men are competitive; they can make a game out of anything. 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With each husband and…”","paragraphStart":"Marriages come in all different shapes and sizes. With each husband and"},{"id":"3-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In fact, it is nothing short of a miracle, when those two lives are really unified in a vibrant, _____  relationship.”","options":["painful or embarrassing","growing and fulfilling","I should disconnect","partners often want"],"correct":1,"proof":"In fact, it is nothing short of a miracle, when those two lives are really unified in a vibrant, growing and fulfilling relationship.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Marriages come in all different shapes and sizes. With each husband and…”","paragraphStart":"Marriages come in all different shapes and sizes. With each husband and"},{"id":"3-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “From the beginning God saw that it was not _____  to be alone, so God made a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18).”","options":["side by side","told the truth","fun all along","good for man"],"correct":3,"proof":"From the beginning God saw that it was not good for man to be alone, so God made a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Marriages come in all different shapes and sizes. With each husband and…”","paragraphStart":"Marriages come in all different shapes and sizes. With each husband and","scripture":"Genesis 2:18 — it is not good for the man to be alone; God provides a suitable helper."},{"id":"3-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is helpful to step back and try to _____  look at the interactions in our marriages.”","options":["know the kitchen","That’s the spirit","peace or avoiding","take an objective"],"correct":3,"proof":"It is helpful to step back and try to take an objective look at the interactions in our marriages.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “In today’s world most marriages have veered far off the track of…”","paragraphStart":"In today’s world most marriages have veered far off the track of"},{"id":"3-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “A relationship _____  will be unhealthy if one functions as the parent and the other as the child.”","options":["between two adults","stuff our feelings","intent for husband","Whatever the logic"],"correct":0,"proof":"A relationship between two adults will be unhealthy if one functions as the parent and the other as the child.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “An interesting theory of personality and interpersonal relationships known as Transactional Analysis…”","paragraphStart":"An interesting theory of personality and interpersonal relationships known as Transactional Analysis"},{"id":"3-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is faith-building to remember that God’s plan from the beginning was that we, as husband and wife, function _____ , adult to adult.”","options":["side by side","good for man","fun all along","told the truth"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is faith-building to remember that God’s plan from the beginning was that we, as husband and wife, function side by side, adult to adult.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “An interesting theory of personality and interpersonal relationships known as Transactional Analysis…”","paragraphStart":"An interesting theory of personality and interpersonal relationships known as Transactional Analysis"},{"id":"3-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “You may be saying, “Well, my husband acts like a child, so that’s why I treat him the way I do.” _____ , it looks bad, sounds bad, and is bad!”","options":["Whatever the logic","compose a complete","between two adults","intent for husband"],"correct":0,"proof":"You may be saying, “Well, my husband acts like a child, so that’s why I treat him the way I do.” Whatever the logic, it looks bad, sounds bad, and is bad!","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “The mothering instinct is strong in us women. It is God’s plan…”","paragraphStart":"The mothering instinct is strong in us women. 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the wife may be trying to keep the _____  taking responsibility.”","options":["That’s the spirit","peace or avoiding","vital to recognize","take an objective"],"correct":1,"proof":"The husband may be very controlling or demanding; the wife may be trying to keep the peace or avoiding taking responsibility.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “In some marriages the interactions may have the wife in the child…”","paragraphStart":"In some marriages the interactions may have the wife in the child"},{"id":"3-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Consciously and unconsciously some develop ways of silencing one another to avoid _____  exposure of our weaknesses.”","options":["painful or embarrassing","growing and fulfilling","I should disconnect","partners often want"],"correct":0,"proof":"Consciously and unconsciously some develop ways of silencing one another to avoid painful or embarrassing exposure of our weaknesses.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “We may use the term “grownup” for adult, but even we “older”…”","paragraphStart":"We may use the term “grownup” for adult, but even we “older”"},{"id":"3-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “One husband described the condition of their relationship by saying, “We’re doing good, aren’t we?” The wife agreed, but later _____  when she was in a “safe place” and would be heard.”","options":["side by side","told the truth","good for man","fun all along"],"correct":1,"proof":"One husband described the condition of their relationship by saying, “We’re doing good, aren’t we?” The wife agreed, but later told the truth when she was in a “safe place” and would be heard.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “One husband described the condition of their relationship by saying, “We’re doing…”","paragraphStart":"One husband described the condition of their relationship by saying, “We’re doing"},{"id":"3-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For we who _____  and hide the truth, we need to have the courage to get the facts of our marriages out in the open.”","options":["Whatever the logic","stuff our feelings","between two adults","compose a complete"],"correct":1,"proof":"For we who stuff our feelings and hide the truth, we need to have the courage to get the facts of our marriages out in the open.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Another wife began to express some ways her husband had hurt her,…”","paragraphStart":"Another wife began to express some ways her husband had hurt her,"},{"id":"3-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Recently I heard of a woman who said, “I want to mean what I say and say what I mean…and not be mean!” _____  we should go for.”","options":["peace or avoiding","take an objective","That’s the spirit","know the kitchen"],"correct":2,"proof":"Recently I heard of a woman who said, “I want to mean what I say and say what I mean…and not be mean!” That’s the spirit we should go for.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Recently I heard of a woman who said, “I want to mean…”","paragraphStart":"Recently I heard of a woman who said, “I want to mean"},{"id":"3-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Somehow marriage _____  to shift the blame saying, “If he wouldn’t ____________, then I wouldn’t _____________.” Certainly, we are connected, and we do affect each other.”","options":["I should disconnect","partners often want","compose a complete","Whatever the logic"],"correct":1,"proof":"Somehow marriage partners often want to shift the blame saying, “If he wouldn’t ____________, then I wouldn’t _____________.” Certainly, we are connected, and we do affect each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Being an adult has a lot to do with accepting responsibility. In…”","paragraphStart":"Being an adult has a lot to do with accepting responsibility. In"},{"id":"3-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “On the other hand, it is _____  that I am the only one that I can control and change.”","options":["intent for husband","Whatever the logic","stuff our feelings","vital to recognize"],"correct":3,"proof":"On the other hand, it is vital to recognize that I am the only one that I can control and change.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Being an adult has a lot to do with accepting responsibility. In…”","paragraphStart":"Being an adult has a lot to do with accepting responsibility. In"},{"id":"3-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “As I looked at my reaction, I realized that too often I connect to someone else’s action when _____  and be responsible for my own action.”","options":["I should disconnect","intent for husband","Whatever the logic","partners often want"],"correct":0,"proof":"As I looked at my reaction, I realized that too often I connect to someone else’s action when I should disconnect and be responsible for my own action.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “Al and I had a exchange that showed me I still have…”","paragraphStart":"Al and I had a exchange that showed me I still have"},{"id":"3-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It was God’s _____  and wife to be together—we need each other.”","options":["Whatever the logic","between two adults","compose a complete","intent for husband"],"correct":3,"proof":"It was God’s intent for husband and wife to be together—we need each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the…”","paragraphStart":"God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the"},{"id":"3-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He was determined to get to the top no matter what; she wanted to have _____  the way.”","options":["side by side","told the truth","good for man","fun all along"],"correct":3,"proof":"He was determined to get to the top no matter what; she wanted to have fun all along the way.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the…”","paragraphStart":"God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the"},{"id":"3-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If it had been up to the wife, they would never have _____  the top.”","options":["move if I","good for man","side by side","reached"],"correct":3,"proof":"If it had been up to the wife, they would never have reached the top.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 3 — paragraph beginning “God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the…”","paragraphStart":"God planned for the wife to be a helper “suitable” for the"}]},{"number":4,"title":"Love One Another","label":"Chapter 4 — Love One Another","questions":[{"id":"4-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Now that we have defined marriage as a _____  differences and speaks honestly, we must learn to love well.”","options":["team who appreciates","heard and understood","tragedies of Western","writers have written"],"correct":0,"proof":"Now that we have defined marriage as a team who appreciates differences and speaks honestly, we must learn to love well.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Now that we have defined marriage as a team who appreciates differences…”","paragraphStart":"Now that we have defined marriage as a team who appreciates differences"},{"id":"4-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Poets and song _____  about it ever since the birth of language.”","options":["other’s best friends","tragedies of Western","writers have written","matures and develops"],"correct":2,"proof":"Poets and song writers have written about it ever since the birth of language.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Poets and song writers have written about it ever since the birth…”","paragraphStart":"Poets and song writers have written about it ever since the birth"},{"id":"4-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Some will argue that true love, the kind of love that _____  together for a lifetime, is not a feeling.”","options":["long before email","trying to grow","above list came","keeps a couple"],"correct":3,"proof":"Some will argue that true love, the kind of love that keeps a couple together for a lifetime, is not a feeling.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Is love in marriage a feeling or an action? Some will argue…”","paragraphStart":"Is love in marriage a feeling or an action? Some will argue"},{"id":"4-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is said that one of the great _____  culture is that we have equated love with warm, emotional feelings.”","options":["team who appreciates","matures and develops","other’s best friends","tragedies of Western"],"correct":3,"proof":"It is said that one of the great tragedies of Western culture is that we have equated love with warm, emotional feelings.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Is love in marriage a feeling or an action? Some will argue…”","paragraphStart":"Is love in marriage a feeling or an action? Some will argue"},{"id":"4-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Others will argue that marital love should not be simply the result of obeying a _____  to be in love.”","options":["sound farther along","command or deciding","nothing without God","dream about finding"],"correct":1,"proof":"Others will argue that marital love should not be simply the result of obeying a command or deciding to be in love.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Others will argue that marital love should not be simply the result…”","paragraphStart":"Others will argue that marital love should not be simply the result"},{"id":"4-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the _____  is to love others as we love ourselves (Mark 12:31).”","options":["neither is superiority","values enjoying sexual","second greatest command","understanding her wiring"],"correct":2,"proof":"Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to love others as we love ourselves (Mark 12:31).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to…”","paragraphStart":"Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to","scripture":"Mark 12:31 — love your neighbor as yourself."},{"id":"4-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Love of self involves the challenge of realizing that we are _____ , but that by his grace we are his children with all its privileges.”","options":["sound farther along","dream about finding","command or deciding","nothing without God"],"correct":3,"proof":"Love of self involves the challenge of realizing that we are nothing without God, but that by his grace we are his children with all its privileges.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to…”","paragraphStart":"Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to"},{"id":"4-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Low self-esteem and a feeling of worthlessness are not a good foundation for a solid marriage, but _____  and entitlement.”","options":["values enjoying sexual","tragedies of Western","neither is superiority","second greatest command"],"correct":2,"proof":"Low self-esteem and a feeling of worthlessness are not a good foundation for a solid marriage, but neither is superiority and entitlement.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to…”","paragraphStart":"Philautia: (Love of self) Jesus said the second greatest command is to"},{"id":"4-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is a highly sensual and intense style of love that _____  pleasure together (See the chapter on sexual intimacy).”","options":["neither is superiority","second greatest command","heard and understood","values enjoying sexual"],"correct":3,"proof":"It is a highly sensual and intense style of love that values enjoying sexual pleasure together (See the chapter on sexual intimacy).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Eros: (Erotic love) This love involves sexual passion and desire. It is…”","paragraphStart":"Eros: (Erotic love) This love involves sexual passion and desire. It is"},{"id":"4-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Pragma: (Lasting love) This is a love that ages, _____  well over the years and will stand the test of time.”","options":["writers have written","other’s best friends","matures and develops","tragedies of Western"],"correct":2,"proof":"Pragma: (Lasting love) This is a love that ages, matures and develops well over the years and will stand the test of time.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Pragma: (Lasting love) This is a love that ages, matures and develops…”","paragraphStart":"Pragma: (Lasting love) This is a love that ages, matures and develops"},{"id":"4-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “This type of love is extremely important in marriage; you should be each _____  and treat each other as equal partners.”","options":["matures and develops","tragedies of Western","other’s best friends","team who appreciates"],"correct":2,"proof":"This type of love is extremely important in marriage; you should be each other’s best friends and treat each other as equal partners.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Philia: (Affectionate love) This love usually depends on a deep friendship (See…”","paragraphStart":"Philia: (Affectionate love) This love usually depends on a deep friendship (See"},{"id":"4-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Agape: (Selfless love) This is the highest, purest and most radical type of love and is the _____  for love in the Greek language.”","options":["trying to grow","above list came","noblest word","keeps a couple"],"correct":2,"proof":"Agape: (Selfless love) This is the highest, purest and most radical type of love and is the noblest word for love in the Greek language.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Agape: (Selfless love) This is the highest, purest and most radical type…”","paragraphStart":"Agape: (Selfless love) This is the highest, purest and most radical type"},{"id":"4-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart for two summers, _____ , cell phones, and texting existed.”","options":["dream about finding","nothing without God","above list came","long before email"],"correct":3,"proof":"When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart for two summers, long before email, cell phones, and texting existed.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart…”","paragraphStart":"When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart"},{"id":"4-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Early on, we were very tentative and insecure, not wanting to _____  with our feelings than the other was.”","options":["command or deciding","sound farther along","nothing without God","dream about finding"],"correct":1,"proof":"Early on, we were very tentative and insecure, not wanting to sound farther along with our feelings than the other was.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart…”","paragraphStart":"When we were just beginning to date, Gloria and I were apart"},{"id":"4-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Emotional intimacy and great communication—She wants to be _____ , and to understand her husband.”","options":["matures and develops","tragedies of Western","team who appreciates","heard and understood"],"correct":3,"proof":"Emotional intimacy and great communication—She wants to be heard and understood, and to understand her husband.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Emotional intimacy and great communication—She wants to be heard and understood, and…”","paragraphStart":"Emotional intimacy and great communication—She wants to be heard and understood, and"},{"id":"4-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Encouragement and affirmation—Encourage her by _____ , giving her first place, pointing out her potential, and appreciating her contribution.”","options":["second greatest command","values enjoying sexual","neither is superiority","understanding her wiring"],"correct":3,"proof":"Encouragement and affirmation—Encourage her by understanding her wiring, giving her first place, pointing out her potential, and appreciating her contribution.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Encouragement and affirmation—Encourage her by understanding her wiring, giving her first place,…”","paragraphStart":"Encouragement and affirmation—Encourage her by understanding her wiring, giving her first place,"},{"id":"4-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “She needs her husband to work hard at the marriage; to laugh together, play together, stay the course, and work out the _____  you.”","options":["values enjoying sexual","inevitable differences between","understanding her wiring","second greatest command"],"correct":1,"proof":"She needs her husband to work hard at the marriage; to laugh together, play together, stay the course, and work out the inevitable differences between you.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Companionship—It is all about togetherness. She needs her husband to work hard…”","paragraphStart":"Companionship—It is all about togetherness. She needs her husband to work hard"},{"id":"4-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “While the _____  from a survey focusing on a woman’s need for love, both men and women need love.”","options":["above list came","keeps a couple","trying to grow","long before email"],"correct":0,"proof":"While the above list came from a survey focusing on a woman’s need for love, both men and women need love.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “While the above list came from a survey focusing on a woman’s…”","paragraphStart":"While the above list came from a survey focusing on a woman’s"},{"id":"4-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Most of us used to _____  that one special love, who would fulfill all our needs and desires—who was always affectionate, friendly, playful, erotic, selfless, and stable.”","options":["sound farther along","nothing without God","dream about finding","command or deciding"],"correct":2,"proof":"Most of us used to dream about finding that one special love, who would fulfill all our needs and desires—who was always affectionate, friendly, playful, erotic, selfless, and stable.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Most of us used to dream about finding that one special love,…”","paragraphStart":"Most of us used to dream about finding that one special love,"},{"id":"4-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “While we won’t have a perfect marriage, we can still have one in which both of us are _____  in each of those seven meanings of love taken from the Greek.”","options":["keeps a couple","above list came","long before email","trying to grow"],"correct":3,"proof":"While we won’t have a perfect marriage, we can still have one in which both of us are trying to grow in each of those seven meanings of love taken from the Greek.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 4 — paragraph beginning “Most of us used to dream about finding that one special love,…”","paragraphStart":"Most of us used to dream about finding that one special love,"}]},{"number":5,"title":"Respect Your Mate","label":"Chapter 5 — Respect Your Mate","questions":[{"id":"5-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “We all want to feel loved, and one of the best _____  love is to show respect for each other.”","options":["lets us know","wrote the hit","half as big","ways to show"],"correct":3,"proof":"We all want to feel loved, and one of the best ways to show love is to show respect for each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “We all want to feel loved, and one of the best ways…”","paragraphStart":"We all want to feel loved, and one of the best ways"},{"id":"5-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and songwriters _____  song “RESPECT”, in which he described a man’s need for respect from his woman.”","options":["using the word","lets us know","wrote the hit","ways to show"],"correct":2,"proof":"Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and songwriters wrote the hit song “RESPECT”, in which he described a man’s need for respect from his woman.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and songwriters wrote the…”","paragraphStart":"Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and songwriters wrote the"},{"id":"5-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Both _____  that respect is necessary for any relationship to be successful.”","options":["quarrelsome and nagging","another has everything","versions correctly recognize","need sexual release"],"correct":2,"proof":"Both versions correctly recognize that respect is necessary for any relationship to be successful.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and songwriters wrote the…”","paragraphStart":"Otis Redding, one of the great rhythm-and-blues singers and 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differing levels and in different ways.”","options":["half as big","such a way","lets us know","ways to show"],"correct":1,"proof":"God created us in such a way that while we are very different, men and women need both love and respect, but at differing levels and in different ways.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “God created us in such a way that while we are very…”","paragraphStart":"God created us in such a way that while we are very"},{"id":"5-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is hard for most women to understand or even _____  want respect more than love.”","options":["imagine that men","he reacts without","he doesn’t value","beyond my wildest"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is hard for most women to understand or even imagine that men want respect more than love.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “God created us in such a way that while we are very…”","paragraphStart":"God created us in such a way that while we are 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landmark book on this subject is Love & Respect by Dr.…”","paragraphStart":"A landmark book on this subject is Love & Respect by Dr."},{"id":"5-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, _____  love.”","options":["he reacts without","imagine that men","destroy a marriage","beyond my wildest"],"correct":0,"proof":"Without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Eggerichs defines what he calls the “Crazy Cycle.” The wife primarily needs…”","paragraphStart":"Eggerichs defines what he calls the “Crazy Cycle.” The wife primarily needs"},{"id":"5-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “How the need for love and the need for respect play off one _____  to do with the kind of marriage you will have.”","options":["respect an unloving","intends is possible","quarrelsome and nagging","another has everything"],"correct":3,"proof":"How the need for love and the need for respect play off one another has everything to do with the kind of marriage you will have.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Eggerichs defines what he calls the “Crazy Cycle.” The wife primarily needs…”","paragraphStart":"Eggerichs defines what he calls the “Crazy Cycle.” The wife primarily needs"},{"id":"5-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “A husband is called to love a disrespectful wife, and a wife is called to _____  husband.”","options":["respect an unloving","intends is possible","feeling the belief","need sexual release"],"correct":0,"proof":"A husband is called to love a disrespectful wife, and a wife is called to respect an unloving husband.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Clearly, since love and respect are commanded (Ephesians 5:33), it follows that…”","paragraphStart":"Clearly, since love and respect are commanded (Ephesians 5:33), it follows that","scripture":"Ephesians 5:33 — a husband is told to love his wife and a wife to respect her husband. The authors apply this through conflict."},{"id":"5-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Once again, let us emphasize that this kind of marriage that God _____  only with him working daily at the center of the relationship, overcoming our own shortcomings.”","options":["intends is possible","respect an unloving","need sexual release","destroy a marriage"],"correct":0,"proof":"Once again, let us emphasize that this kind of marriage that God intends is possible only with him working daily at the center of the relationship, overcoming our own shortcomings.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Clearly, since love and respect are commanded (Ephesians 5:33), it follows that…”","paragraphStart":"Clearly, since love and respect are commanded (Ephesians 5:33), it follows that"},{"id":"5-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Wives must understand we men aren’t _____  and strong and impervious to being hurt as we may seem or pretend to be.”","options":["such a way","lets us know","half as big","ways to show"],"correct":2,"proof":"Wives must understand we men aren’t half as big and strong and impervious to being hurt as we may seem or pretend to be.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Husbands at some level feel insecure and inadequate and need affirmation from…”","paragraphStart":"Husbands at some level feel insecure and inadequate and need affirmation from"},{"id":"5-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “To feel like we are not measuring up in the marriage is seriously debilitating; but _____  in us from our mate is incredibly motivational.”","options":["feeling the belief","beyond my wildest","destroy a marriage","prefer being alone"],"correct":0,"proof":"To feel like we are not measuring up in the marriage is seriously debilitating; but feeling the belief in us from our mate is incredibly motivational.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Husbands at some level feel insecure and inadequate and need affirmation from…”","paragraphStart":"Husbands at some level feel insecure and inadequate and need affirmation from"},{"id":"5-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, _____  “respect” can mean a lot).”","options":["wrote the hit","using the word","ways to show","writing a card"],"correct":1,"proof":"Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, using the word “respect” can mean a lot).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, using…”","paragraphStart":"Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, using"},{"id":"5-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Telling us “face to face” is great, but so is _____  or a text.”","options":["wrote the hit","using the word","ways to show","writing a card"],"correct":3,"proof":"Telling us “face to face” is great, but so is writing a card or a text.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, using…”","paragraphStart":"Tell us what you appreciate, admire, and respect about us (Yes, using"},{"id":"5-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “To hear from someone else that you have been bragging about us _____  that you are proud of us.”","options":["lets us know","half as big","wrote the hit","ways to show"],"correct":0,"proof":"To hear from someone else that you have been bragging about us lets us know that you are proud of us.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Tell others, especially the kids, what you respect about us. To hear…”","paragraphStart":"Tell others, especially the kids, what you respect about us. To hear"},{"id":"5-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Remember the admonition from Proverbs 21:19, “Better to live in a desert than with a _____  wife.” Use a loving tone.”","options":["another has everything","intends is possible","quarrelsome and nagging","respect an unloving"],"correct":2,"proof":"Remember the admonition from Proverbs 21:19, “Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.” Use a loving tone.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “Do not nag. Find ways to motivate us that are helpful rather…”","paragraphStart":"Do not nag. Find ways to motivate us that are helpful rather","scripture":"Proverbs 21:19 — the verse contrasts desert living with a quarrelsome spouse."},{"id":"5-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Not only do we _____ , but we need to know that we please you sexually.”","options":["respect an unloving","intends is possible","need sexual release","prefer being alone"],"correct":2,"proof":"Not only do we need sexual release, but we need to know that we please you sexually.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “And finally, one of the most important areas of all: appreciate us…”","paragraphStart":"And finally, one of the most important areas of all: appreciate us"},{"id":"5-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It was the best fifty-six years that I could have ever imagined, _____  dreams.”","options":["prefer being alone","feeling the belief","he reacts without","beyond my wildest"],"correct":3,"proof":"It was the best fifty-six years that I could have ever imagined, beyond my wildest dreams.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 5 — paragraph beginning “On July 14, 2018, I lost Gloria to cancer after a six-year…”","paragraphStart":"On July 14, 2018, I lost Gloria to cancer after a six-year"}]},{"number":6,"title":"Be Best Friends","label":"Chapter 6 — Be Best Friends","questions":[{"id":"6-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Many of us guys would say “amen” to this song, and this would be the _____  we would choose: lover and then friend.”","options":["life is going","try new things","order","act of making"],"correct":2,"proof":"Many of us guys would say “amen” to this song, and this would be the order we would choose: lover and then friend.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 6 — paragraph beginning “Many of us guys would say “amen” to this song, and this…”","paragraphStart":"Many of us guys would say “amen” to this song, and this"},{"id":"6-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Rather, Gottman found that the quality of a married couple’s friendship is the most important predictor of _____ , romance, and passion; 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The…”","paragraphStart":"How partners define “friend” is somewhat different for each of us. 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“Friendship helps us feel safe enough to be open with one another…”","paragraphStart":"Friendship helps us feel safe enough to be open with one another"},{"id":"6-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The _____  will not only comfort us if we are agitated, but they will agitate us if we get too comfortable.”","options":["percent of time","inspired by God","best of friends","person you value"],"correct":2,"proof":"The best of friends will not only comfort us if we are agitated, but they will agitate us if we get too comfortable.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 6 — paragraph beginning “Friendship helps us feel safe enough to be open with one another…”","paragraphStart":"Friendship helps us feel safe enough to be open with one another"},{"id":"6-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “They _____  when you feel ugly, your wholeness when you are broken, your innocence when you feel guilty, and your purpose when you are confused.”","options":["routinely need eight","satisfaction with sex","remember your beauty","intimate and private"],"correct":2,"proof":"They remember your beauty when you feel ugly, your wholeness when you are broken, your innocence when you feel guilty, and your purpose when you are confused.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 6 — paragraph beginning “An African proverb that states: “A friend is someone who knows your…”","paragraphStart":"An African proverb that states: “A friend is someone who knows your"},{"id":"6-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “With his or her emotional support, we can take risks, _____ , and face our fears because our friend is there to catch us if we fall.”","options":["life is going","home every day","try new things","inspired by God"],"correct":2,"proof":"With his or her emotional support, we can take risks, try new things, and face our fears because our friend is there to catch us if we fall.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 6 — paragraph beginning “Our partner supports us to become who we can be, so our…”","paragraphStart":"Our partner supports us to become who we can be, so our"},{"id":"6-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If you were in our _____ , you would observe that the words we say to each other are overwhelmingly positive.”","options":["try new things","life is going","best of friends","home every day"],"correct":3,"proof":"If you were in our home every day, you would observe that the words we say to each other are overwhelmingly positive.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 6 — paragraph beginning “Our partner supports us to become who we can be, so our…”","paragraphStart":"Our partner supports us to become who we can be, so our"},{"id":"6-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Because, if we’re going to be best friends, we’re going to continually do and say _____  our mate that we believe in him or her.”","options":["okay doing nothing","value of expressing","routinely need eight","things that 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Gottman’s research3 shows that"}]},{"number":7,"title":"Set Right Priorities","label":"Chapter 7 — Set Right Priorities","questions":[{"id":"7-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In today’s _____  like we are constantly busy, with more that we need to do than we can possibly get done.”","options":["isn’t in great","focus on doing","go through life","world it seems"],"correct":3,"proof":"In today’s world it seems like we are constantly busy, with more that we need to do than we can possibly get done.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Best friends who are married need to set priorities to keep the…”","paragraphStart":"Best friends who are married need to set priorities to keep the"},{"id":"7-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “From the very start of the morning we can quickly begin to feel as though everything around us is spinning, and there is no _____  it down.”","options":["world it seems","focus on doing","way to slow","jobs and 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of time spent with friends and family.”","options":["affect the quality","disciples of Jesus","tight and mutually","whether we’re rich"],"correct":0,"proof":"Marital stress will influence how we interact with the kids, and it will affect the quality of time spent with friends and family.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Marital stress will influence how we interact with the kids, and it…”","paragraphStart":"Marital stress will influence how we interact with the kids, and it"},{"id":"7-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “With the proper priority on marriage, there are also many _____  within the marriage itself; time spent together, minimizing conflict, our sex life, and so on.”","options":["take these problems","I continually monitor","things to prioritize","must prepare dinner"],"correct":2,"proof":"With the proper priority on marriage, there are also many things to prioritize within the marriage itself; time spent together, minimizing conflict, 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You…”","paragraphStart":"Work out the specifics of implementing the priorities with your spouse. You"},{"id":"7-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Once it is on the _____ , make it a priority. 6.”","options":["way to slow","jobs and long","focus on doing","calendar"],"correct":3,"proof":"Once it is on the calendar, make it a priority.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Schedule regular alone time together. It may be a regularly scheduled date…”","paragraphStart":"Schedule regular alone time together. It may be a regularly scheduled date"},{"id":"7-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Gloria and _____  and evaluate the amount of time we spend on social media, the Internet and television.”","options":["I continually monitor","things to prioritize","coming again tomorrow","take these problems"],"correct":0,"proof":"Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we spend on social media, the Internet and television.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we…”","paragraphStart":"Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we"},{"id":"7-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For many years we resisted having a television in our bedroom, because it didn’t help _____  life or sleep.”","options":["world it seems","either our love","go through life","focus on doing"],"correct":1,"proof":"For many years we resisted having a television in our bedroom, because it didn’t help either our love life or sleep.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we…”","paragraphStart":"Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we"},{"id":"7-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In the last few years we did yield to the television in the bedroom temptation, but under very _____  agreed on controls.”","options":["affect the quality","tight and mutually","whether we’re rich","disciples of Jesus"],"correct":1,"proof":"In the last few years we did yield to the television in the bedroom temptation, but under very tight and mutually agreed on controls.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 7 — paragraph beginning “Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we…”","paragraphStart":"Gloria and I continually monitor and evaluate the amount of time we"}]},{"number":8,"title":"Communicate","label":"Chapter 8 — Communicate","questions":[{"id":"8-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Happiness in marriage is limited by the extent that we _____  self with our mate.”","options":["I might mention","share our true","gaps we leave","being made fun"],"correct":1,"proof":"Happiness in marriage is limited by the extent that we share our true self with our mate.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our…”","paragraphStart":"As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our"},{"id":"8-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Communication is challenging; communication between a man and a _____  challenging, because we are so different!”","options":["think she looks","woman is doubly","I might mention","being made fun"],"correct":1,"proof":"Communication is challenging; communication between a man and a woman is doubly challenging, because we are so different!","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our…”","paragraphStart":"As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our"},{"id":"8-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Before marriage, we _____  that soul mate, the one to whom we can pour out our hearts and share our inmost thoughts.”","options":["I might mention","argued from time","dream of finding","ends the passage"],"correct":2,"proof":"Before marriage, we dream of finding that soul mate, the one to whom we can pour out our hearts and share our inmost thoughts.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our…”","paragraphStart":"As we examine our priorities, certainly communication must be high on our"},{"id":"8-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In the movie, Fiddler on the Roof there is a famous scene where the husband _____  if she loves him.”","options":["being made fun","asks his wife","heard the way","gaps we leave"],"correct":1,"proof":"In the movie, Fiddler on the Roof there is a famous scene where the husband asks his wife if she loves him.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “There are two parts of communication: verbal and nonverbal. 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Early in our"},{"id":"8-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “After reading the book, I saw that _____  help to Al communicated to him that I did not trust him to do the job correctly.”","options":["my offering unsolicited","talking through every","several years later","studies have shown"],"correct":0,"proof":"After reading the book, I saw that my offering unsolicited help to Al communicated to him that I did not trust him to do the job correctly.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “It is important to learn how differently we think. Early in our…”","paragraphStart":"It is important to learn how differently we think. Early in our"},{"id":"8-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Women, on the other hand, tend to solve problems by thinking out loud and _____  aspect, big or small.”","options":["talking through every","my offering unsolicited","studies have shown","several years later"],"correct":0,"proof":"Women, on the other hand, tend to solve problems by thinking out loud and talking through every aspect, big or small.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Men are problem-solvers by nature. They deal with problems by thinking silently,…”","paragraphStart":"Men are problem-solvers by nature. They deal with problems by thinking silently,"},{"id":"8-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If it has a negative, “problem” sound, the problem-solving husband _____  for the solution whether or not the wife asked for a solution.”","options":["immediately feels responsible","talking through every","several years later","my offering unsolicited"],"correct":0,"proof":"If it has a negative, “problem” sound, the problem-solving husband immediately feels responsible for the solution whether or not the wife asked for a solution.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Men are problem-solvers by nature. They deal with problems by thinking silently,…”","paragraphStart":"Men are problem-solvers by nature. They deal with problems by thinking silently,"},{"id":"8-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For example, I _____  Al, “What time is the meeting?” Then I would be totally confused by his sometimes-irritated response.”","options":["asks his wife","gaps we leave","used to ask","heard the way"],"correct":2,"proof":"For example, I used to ask Al, “What time is the meeting?” Then I would be totally confused by his sometimes-irritated response.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Another aspect of our communication that needed to change was the way…”","paragraphStart":"Another aspect of our communication that needed to change was the way"},{"id":"8-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For example, _____  to Al that the trash can is full, meaning that I would like him to empty it.”","options":["I might mention","argued from time","think she looks","woman is doubly"],"correct":0,"proof":"For example, I might mention to Al that the trash can is full, meaning that I would like him to empty it.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Another way of communicating I have had to change is my hinting.…”","paragraphStart":"Another way of communicating I have had to change is my hinting."},{"id":"8-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He would much prefer that I just make a direct _____  to beating around the bush.”","options":["I felt aggravated","request as opposed","several years later","studies have shown"],"correct":1,"proof":"He would much prefer that I just make a direct request as opposed to beating around the bush.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Another way of communicating I have had to change is my hinting.…”","paragraphStart":"Another way of communicating I have had to change is my hinting."},{"id":"8-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Real communication occurs when what is said is _____  it was intended.”","options":["gaps we leave","asks his wife","heard the way","being made fun"],"correct":2,"proof":"Real communication occurs when what is said is heard the way it was intended.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “The ability to be a good listener is vital to effective communication.…”","paragraphStart":"The ability to be a good listener is vital to effective communication."},{"id":"8-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “While it may take us a while to formulate our thoughts, we have learned that whatever _____  in our communication with each other, Satan loves to fill.”","options":["being made fun","asks his wife","heard the way","gaps we leave"],"correct":3,"proof":"While it may take us a while to formulate our thoughts, we have learned that whatever gaps we leave in our communication with each other, Satan loves to fill.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “A potential trap in communication is what is not said—gaps we leave…”","paragraphStart":"A potential trap in communication is what is not said—gaps we leave"},{"id":"8-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “She will probably assume that since I didn’t say anything, I must not _____  very good.”","options":["being made fun","I might mention","think she looks","woman is doubly"],"correct":2,"proof":"She will probably assume that since I didn’t say anything, I must not think she looks very good.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “A potential trap in communication is what is not said—gaps we leave…”","paragraphStart":"A potential trap in communication is what is not said—gaps we leave"},{"id":"8-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In Solomon’s oft-quoted statement, “Two are better than one.” He _____  with, “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).”","options":["ends the passage","dream of finding","argued from time","I might mention"],"correct":0,"proof":"In Solomon’s oft-quoted statement, “Two are better than one.” He ends the passage with, “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 8 — paragraph beginning “Finally, nothing is more essential to effective communication in marriage than our…”","paragraphStart":"Finally, nothing is more essential to effective communication in marriage than our","scripture":"Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 — two are better than one, and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."}]},{"number":9,"title":"Fight Fairly","label":"Chapter 9 — Fight Fairly","questions":[{"id":"9-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “No _____  we try to communicate correctly, communication at times is sure to go awry and end in conflict.”","options":["bumpy dirt road","take several days","matter how hard","want to prove"],"correct":2,"proof":"No matter how hard we try to communicate correctly, communication at times is sure to go awry and end in conflict.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “No matter how hard we 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on our map.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second…”","paragraphStart":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second"},{"id":"9-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “To make _____ , we ran out of gas on that road; and it was a several-mile walk into town.”","options":["five per cent","come a long","real fight","things worse"],"correct":3,"proof":"To make things worse, we ran out of gas on that road; and it was a several-mile walk into town.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second…”","paragraphStart":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second"},{"id":"9-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Often it takes very little to _____  because of the issues that weren’t previously settled.”","options":["set it off","want to prove","come a long","five per cent"],"correct":0,"proof":"Often it takes very little to set it off because of the issues that weren’t previously settled.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge. Studies have shown that most…”","paragraphStart":"Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge. Studies have shown that most"},{"id":"9-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is like _____  under a carpet—after a while the carpet has a bump in it where all the previous dirt has accumulated.”","options":["acknowledged our part","beautiful mountain views","continually sweeping dirt","until the disagreement"],"correct":2,"proof":"It is like continually sweeping dirt under a carpet—after a while the carpet has a bump in it where all the previous dirt has accumulated.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge. Studies have shown that most…”","paragraphStart":"Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge. Studies have shown that most"},{"id":"9-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Second, certain things are NOT permitted at all; _____ , yelling, cursing, or anything else that would be completely out of bounds for a Christian.”","options":["things like hitting","being totally right","apologize for helps","post–game analysis"],"correct":0,"proof":"Second, certain things are NOT permitted at all; things like hitting, yelling, cursing, or anything else that would be completely out of bounds for a Christian.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Before we even start the process of resolution, we need to agree…”","paragraphStart":"Before we even start the process of resolution, we need to agree"},{"id":"9-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In our many years together, we have _____  way in working through our conflicts, and have learned, through our mistakes, some things that work well and other things that don’t work at all.”","options":["want to prove","set it off","come a long","five per cent"],"correct":2,"proof":"In our many years together, we have come a long way in working through our conflicts, and have learned, through our mistakes, some things that work well and other things that don’t work at all.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “In our many years together, we have come a long way in…”","paragraphStart":"In our many years together, we have come a long way in"},{"id":"9-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In the past some of our fights would _____  to resolve completely; now it is very unusual for us to take more than five minutes to work through any disagreement.”","options":["emotions are high","take several days","post–game analysis","healthy ways helps"],"correct":1,"proof":"In the past some of our fights would take several days to resolve completely; now it is very unusual for us to take more than five minutes to work through any disagreement.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “In our many years together, we have come a long way in…”","paragraphStart":"In our many years together, we have come a long way in"},{"id":"9-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “None of our fights with each other has ever ended with one of us _____  and the other totally wrong.”","options":["things like hitting","being totally right","apologize for helps","post–game analysis"],"correct":1,"proof":"None of our fights with each other has ever ended with one of us being totally right and the other totally wrong.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights…”","paragraphStart":"I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights"},{"id":"9-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “At the end, both of us will have to own our part, even if we were only _____  at fault.”","options":["bumpy dirt road","five per cent","want to prove","matter how hard"],"correct":1,"proof":"At the end, both of us will have to own our part, even if we were only five per cent at fault.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights…”","paragraphStart":"I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights"},{"id":"9-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Knowing at the start that we will each have something to _____  to keep us both humble as we work through our differences.”","options":["apologize for helps","things like hitting","healthy ways helps","being totally right"],"correct":0,"proof":"Knowing at the start that we will each have something to apologize for helps to keep us both humble as we work through our differences.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights…”","paragraphStart":"I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter. None of our fights"},{"id":"9-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “There is a real temptation for us to _____  “our case” and win the fight, but the most important thing is to do right in God’s eyes.”","options":["come a long","want to prove","bumpy dirt road","five per cent"],"correct":1,"proof":"There is a real temptation for us to want to prove “our case” and win the fight, but the most important thing is to do right in God’s eyes.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right. There is a…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right. There is a"},{"id":"9-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “God gives us a directive that, if followed by both of us, will prevent most fights: “Do _____  or arguing...” (Philippians 2:14).”","options":["everything without complaining","until the disagreement","continually sweeping dirt","beautiful mountain views"],"correct":0,"proof":"God gives us a directive that, if followed by both of us, will prevent most fights: “Do everything without complaining or arguing...” (Philippians 2:14).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right. There is a…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right. There is a","scripture":"Philippians 2:14 — do everything without grumbling or arguing."},{"id":"9-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “During conflict when _____ , trying to use logic is like pouring gasoline on a fire.”","options":["post–game analysis","take several days","healthy ways helps","emotions are high"],"correct":3,"proof":"During conflict when emotions are high, trying to use logic is like pouring gasoline on a fire.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Don’t use logic at emotional times. Usually, one of us tends to…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t use logic at emotional times. Usually, one of us tends to"},{"id":"9-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “But a fight is not over until both of us have _____ , ask each other for forgiveness for our part, and granted forgiveness to each other.”","options":["apologize for helps","being totally right","acknowledged our part","until the disagreement"],"correct":2,"proof":"But a fight is not over until both of us have acknowledged our part, ask each other for forgiveness for our part, and granted forgiveness to each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Ask for and give forgiveness. We have an entire chapter in this…”","paragraphStart":"Ask for and give forgiveness. We have an entire chapter in this"},{"id":"9-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Though not a part of our Ten Commandments for Fighting Fairly, a tool that has been incredibly helpful to us is a review of the conflict (similar to a “_____ ” in sports).”","options":["post–game analysis","apologize for helps","things like hitting","healthy ways helps"],"correct":0,"proof":"Though not a part of our Ten Commandments for Fighting Fairly, a tool that has been incredibly helpful to us is a review of the conflict (similar to a “post–game analysis” in sports).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten…”","paragraphStart":"Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten"},{"id":"9-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “First, a warning: this MUST NOT be done _____  has been totally resolved all the way through Step 10.”","options":["beautiful mountain views","until the disagreement","acknowledged our part","continually sweeping dirt"],"correct":1,"proof":"First, a warning: this MUST NOT be done until the disagreement has been totally resolved all the way through Step 10.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten…”","paragraphStart":"Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten"},{"id":"9-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Now, we very seldom have a _____ , and when we do it is usually resolved very quickly.”","options":["set it off","things worse","real fight","come a long"],"correct":2,"proof":"Now, we very seldom have a real fight, and when we do it is usually resolved very quickly.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten…”","paragraphStart":"Time for a post—game analysis. Though not a part of our Ten"},{"id":"9-21","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Conflict is a part of life. We can’t _____ from it.”","options":["learn","hide","grow","resolve"],"correct":1,"proof":"Conflict is a part of life. We can’t hide from it.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “No matter how hard we try to communicate correctly, communication at times is sure to go awry and end in conflict.…”","paragraphStart":"No matter how hard we try to communicate correctly, communication at times is sure to go awry and end in conflict."},{"id":"9-22","text":"According to the chapter, when did the authors have their first fight?","options":["On the second day of their honeymoon","Before their wedding","After their first anniversary","On the final day of their honeymoon"],"correct":0,"proof":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon.…”","paragraphStart":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon."},{"id":"9-23","text":"Where were the authors driving when their first fight occurred?","options":["Cloudcroft, New Mexico","Santa Fe, New Mexico","Phoenix, Arizona","Denver, Colorado"],"correct":0,"proof":"We were driving to Cloudcroft, New Mexico, late in the evening.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon.…”","paragraphStart":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon."},{"id":"9-24","text":"During the honeymoon trip, who was driving and who was navigating?","options":["Gloria drove and Al navigated","Al drove and Gloria navigated","Both took turns driving","The chapter does not say"],"correct":1,"proof":"I was the driver and Gloria was the navigator with the map.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon.…”","paragraphStart":"I remember very well our first fight; it was on the second day of our honeymoon."},{"id":"9-25","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s _____.”","options":["wisdom","oneness","patience","forgiveness"],"correct":1,"proof":"In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s oneness.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s oneness.…”","paragraphStart":"In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s oneness."},{"id":"9-26","text":"Why does the chapter say spouses commit to resolving their conflicts?","options":["Because conflict should never occur","Because God calls them to unity","Because one spouse must win","Because disagreements are always misunderstandings"],"correct":1,"proof":"We commit to resolving our conflicts because God calls us to unity.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s oneness.…”","paragraphStart":"In marriage, we are two different people trying to reflect God’s oneness."},{"id":"9-27","text":"According to the chapter, what have studies shown about most couples and their arguments?","options":["Most never argue","Most resolve them immediately","Most do not successfully resolve them","Most use timeouts"],"correct":2,"proof":"Studies have shown that most couples do not successfully resolve their arguments.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge.…”","paragraphStart":"Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge."},{"id":"9-28","text":"What does the chapter say is already set when a conflict is left unresolved?","options":["The groundwork for the next fight","A successful resolution","A post-game analysis","A timeout"],"correct":0,"proof":"When a conflict is left unresolved the groundwork is already set for the next fight.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge.…”","paragraphStart":"Learning healthy conflict resolution is the challenge."},{"id":"9-29","text":"What is the first ground rule the chapter gives before beginning the resolution process?","options":["Never use logic","Work through every conflict in real time","Always take an overnight timeout","Begin with a post-game analysis"],"correct":1,"proof":"First, we will work through every conflict in real time.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Before we even start the process of resolution, we need to agree on two ground rules.…”","paragraphStart":"Before we even start the process of resolution, we need to agree on two ground rules."},{"id":"9-30","text":"What did the authors call the guidelines they decided to teach married couples?","options":["Rules for Better Communication","Ten Commandments for Fighting Fairly","Marriage Conflict Checklist","The Win-Win Plan"],"correct":1,"proof":"Several years ago, we decided to teach married couples what we have learned, and we entitled our guidelines, Ten Commandments for Fighting Fairly.”","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “In our many years together, we have come a long way in working through our conflicts, and have learned, through our mistakes, some things that work well and other things that don’t work at all.…”","paragraphStart":"In our many years together, we have come a long way in working through our conflicts, and have learned, through our mistakes, some things that work well and other things that don’t work at all."},{"id":"9-31","text":"Complete this commandment heading from the chapter: “I am at fault. The _____ doesn’t matter.”","options":["argument","percent","reason","timing"],"correct":1,"proof":"I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter.…”","paragraphStart":"I am at fault. The percent doesn’t matter."},{"id":"9-32","text":"According to the chapter, what kind of outcome does NOT exist in marriage conflicts?","options":["Win-win","Lose-lose","Win-lose","Mutual resolution"],"correct":2,"proof":"In marriage conflicts there is no such thing as “win-lose.”","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right.…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right."},{"id":"9-33","text":"What two possible outcomes does the chapter say marriage conflicts have?","options":["Right-wrong or wrong-right","Win-win or lose-lose","Fast or slow","Logical or emotional"],"correct":1,"proof":"It is always either “win-win” or “lose-lose.”","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right.…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right."},{"id":"9-34","text":"What does the chapter say spouses need to remember during conflict?","options":["They are on the same team","One person must prove the case","Logic must come first","The argument must end immediately"],"correct":0,"proof":"We need to remember that we are on the same team, and the only way to do that is for both of us to be on God’s team.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right.…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right."},{"id":"9-35","text":"According to the chapter, what is the easiest way to resolve a fight?","options":["Use a timeout","Prove your case","Never start it in the first place","Review it immediately"],"correct":2,"proof":"The easiest way to resolve a fight is to never start it in the first place.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Be more concerned with doing right than being right.…”","paragraphStart":"Be more concerned with doing right than being right."},{"id":"9-36","text":"When does the chapter say there is a time for logic during conflict?","options":["Only after the emotions have cooled down","At the very start of every argument","Only during a timeout","During the post-game analysis only"],"correct":0,"proof":"There is a time for logic, but only after the emotions have cooled down.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Don’t use logic at emotional times.…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t use logic at emotional times."},{"id":"9-37","text":"What does the chapter call the practice of stopping during conflict to affirm love for each other?","options":["Defining the boxing ring","Taking responsibility","Calling a timeout","Post-game analysis"],"correct":0,"proof":"We call this “defining the boxing ring.”","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Assume and express love.…”","paragraphStart":"Assume and express love."},{"id":"9-38","text":"Why does the chapter say affirming love during a heated argument is helpful?","options":["It proves who is right","It shows that vitally important things in the marriage are not in question","It ends every conflict immediately","It replaces the need for forgiveness"],"correct":1,"proof":"Things can get very heated in an argument, so it is helpful to know that the vitally important things in our marriage are not in question.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Assume and express love.…”","paragraphStart":"Assume and express love."},{"id":"9-39","text":"According to the chapter, why should certain hurtful words be banned from future conflicts?","options":["They make arguments too short","They can leave scars and give Satan a foothold to plant seeds of doubt","They prevent logical thinking","They make timeouts unnecessary"],"correct":1,"proof":"Although we may not really mean those words and may later apologize for saying them, they can still leave scars and give Satan a foothold to plant seeds of doubt at vulnerable times in the future.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Do not say never, always, hate, stupid, divorce, ugly, fat, idiot, etc.…”","paragraphStart":"Do not say never, always, hate, stupid, divorce, ugly, fat, idiot, etc."},{"id":"9-40","text":"Why does the chapter call words like “always” and “never” counterproductive?","options":["They are too logical","They encourage the other person to think of exceptions instead of the point being made","They express vulnerability","They are useful only after emotions cool"],"correct":1,"proof":"Also, words like “always” and “never” are counterproductive exaggerations, and only encourage the other one to think of the exceptions rather than dealing with the point being made.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Do not say never, always, hate, stupid, divorce, ugly, fat, idiot, etc.…”","paragraphStart":"Do not say never, always, hate, stupid, divorce, ugly, fat, idiot, etc."},{"id":"9-41","text":"What responsibility does the chapter say a spouse should take regarding communication during conflict?","options":["Only responsibility for the exact words spoken","Responsibility for what the other hears you say","Responsibility only after an apology","Responsibility for ending the conflict alone"],"correct":1,"proof":"Don’t argue about who said what. Take responsibility for what the other hears you say.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Don’t argue about who said what. Take responsibility for what the other hears you say.…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t argue about who said what. Take responsibility for what the other hears you say."},{"id":"9-42","text":"According to the chapter, when does good communication happen?","options":["When both people use logic","When what was said is heard in the way it was intended","When neither person interrupts at all times","When the disagreement ends quickly"],"correct":1,"proof":"Good communication only happens when what was said is heard in the way that it was intended.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Don’t argue about who said what. Take responsibility for what the other hears you say.…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t argue about who said what. Take responsibility for what the other hears you say."},{"id":"9-43","text":"Complete this commandment from the chapter: “First understand, then be understood. Take turns—_____.”","options":["no interruptions","no timeouts","no apologies","no questions"],"correct":0,"proof":"First understand, then be understood. Take turns—no interruptions.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “First understand, then be understood. Take turns—no interruptions.…”","paragraphStart":"First understand, then be understood. Take turns—no interruptions."},{"id":"9-44","text":"What does the chapter say many of the authors’ fights turned out to be after clarification?","options":["Serious differences in values","Simple misunderstandings about things they really agreed with","Conflicts that required overnight timeouts","Arguments about who was totally right"],"correct":1,"proof":"It is both humorous and sad how many of our fights turned out to be simple misunderstandings about things that after clarification, we really agreed with.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “First understand, then be understood. Take turns—no interruptions.…”","paragraphStart":"First understand, then be understood. Take turns—no interruptions."},{"id":"9-45","text":"According to the chapter, what is the difference between “you” words and “I” words?","options":["“You” words express vulnerability; “I” words accuse","“You” words are accusative; “I” words express vulnerability","Both are equally accusative","Both should always be avoided"],"correct":1,"proof":"“You” words are accusative, but “I” words express vulnerability.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Use “I” and “that makes me feel...”, not “you.”—Validate such as “Is this what you meant?” or “Let me tell you how I heard that.”…”","paragraphStart":"Use “I” and “that makes me feel...”, not “you.”—Validate such as “Is this what you meant?” or “Let me tell you how I heard that.”"},{"id":"9-46","text":"What effect does the chapter say “I” words can have?","options":["They draw spouses nearer and help them understand","They put the other person on the defensive","They prove which spouse is correct","They eliminate the need to validate"],"correct":0,"proof":"“You” words put us on the defensive and push the other one away, but “I” words draw us nearer and help us understand.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Use “I” and “that makes me feel...”, not “you.”—Validate such as “Is this what you meant?” or “Let me tell you how I heard that.”…”","paragraphStart":"Use “I” and “that makes me feel...”, not “you.”—Validate such as “Is this what you meant?” or “Let me tell you how I heard that.”"},{"id":"9-47","text":"What reasons does the chapter give for taking a timeout?","options":["To avoid the conflict permanently","To cool off, sort out thoughts or feelings, or pray","To decide who won the argument","To begin a post-game analysis"],"correct":1,"proof":"Sometimes we need to cool off or sort out what we are thinking or feeling or just pray.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time.…”","paragraphStart":"Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time."},{"id":"9-48","text":"When a timeout is called, what does the chapter say needs to be agreed on?","options":["Who was at fault","The time for reengagement","Which words are banned","Who will apologize first"],"correct":1,"proof":"When a time a timeout is called for, the time for reengagement needs to be agreed on.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time.…”","paragraphStart":"Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time."},{"id":"9-49","text":"Why does the chapter say late-night arguments should be avoided if possible?","options":["Because exhaustion doesn’t help resolution","Because logic works better at night","Because conflicts must always wait until morning","Because timeouts cannot be used at night"],"correct":0,"proof":"Late-night arguments should be avoided, if at all possible because exhaustion doesn’t help resolution.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time.…”","paragraphStart":"Use timeouts. Agree on their length of time."},{"id":"9-50","text":"According to the chapter, what will determine the quality of a relationship when two people have disagreements?","options":["How quickly one person wins","Working through those times","Avoiding every disagreement","Never discussing differences"],"correct":1,"proof":"Working through those times will determine the quality of the relationship.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 9 — paragraph beginning “Any two people are going to have disagreements with each other if they are together for any length of time.…”","paragraphStart":"Any two people are going to have disagreements with each other if they are together for any length of time."}]},{"number":10,"title":"Forgive Everything","label":"Chapter 10 — Forgive Everything","questions":[{"id":"10-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Though we may _____  fairly, without forgiveness there is no true resolution.”","options":["slowly eats away","grow even closer","clean the 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statement from the chapter: “Some will have to _____ ; we will discuss that more in a later chapter.”","options":["common household items","sometimes by accident","face these challenges","physical or emotional"],"correct":2,"proof":"Some will have to face these challenges; we will discuss that more in a later chapter.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Infidelity, addiction and physical or emotional abuse are a few of the…”","paragraphStart":"Infidelity, addiction and physical or emotional abuse are a few of the"},{"id":"10-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It can be these smaller irritants, and our negative responses to them, that kill the warm, _____  us.”","options":["chose this relationship","face these challenges","loving feelings between","common household items"],"correct":2,"proof":"It can be these smaller irritants, and our negative responses to them, that kill the warm, loving feelings between us.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Most of us, when we are dating, marvel at how much we…”","paragraphStart":"Most of us, when we are dating, marvel at how much we"},{"id":"10-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “When we are in a relationship with someone, chances are one hundred percent that both of us will mess up, be selfish and hurt each another— _____  and sometimes on purpose.”","options":["common household items","face these challenges","sometimes by accident","physical or emotional"],"correct":2,"proof":"When we are in a relationship with someone, chances are one hundred percent that both of us will mess up, be selfish and hurt each another— sometimes by accident and sometimes on purpose.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Most of us, when we are dating, marvel at how much we…”","paragraphStart":"Most of us, when we are dating, marvel at how much we"},{"id":"10-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it also includes forgiving _____  slights, forgetfulness and those parts of each other’s personality that drive you crazy (and may never change).”","options":["things like unintentional","loving feelings between","chose this relationship","common household items"],"correct":0,"proof":"Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it also includes forgiving things like unintentional slights, forgetfulness and those parts of each other’s personality that drive you crazy (and may never change).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it…”","paragraphStart":"Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it"},{"id":"10-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Each of these types of forgiveness is important in a successful marriage but becoming more and more forgiving _____  is critical.”","options":["revealed his killer","toward your partner","studies show blame","mate that probably"],"correct":1,"proof":"Each of these types of forgiveness is important in a successful marriage but becoming more and more forgiving toward your partner is critical.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it…”","paragraphStart":"Forgiveness includes those major hurts and sins against one another, but it"},{"id":"10-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The one who made the mistake or hurt the other is kept in a “one down” _____  indebted to the other.”","options":["position of being","mate that probably","slowly eats away","killed him slowly"],"correct":0,"proof":"The one who made the mistake or hurt the other is kept in a “one down” position of being indebted to the other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “When you decide to really forgive your partner, you open the 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marriage,…”","paragraphStart":"Lack of forgiveness slowly eats away at the love bond in marriage,"},{"id":"10-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It didn’t come in one lump sum, but the lead _____  and quietly, one little bit of poison at a time.”","options":["position of being","grow even closer","killed him slowly","studies show blame"],"correct":2,"proof":"It didn’t come in one lump sum, but the lead killed him slowly and quietly, one little bit of poison at a time.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Lack of forgiveness slowly eats away at the love bond in marriage,…”","paragraphStart":"Lack of forgiveness slowly eats away at the love bond in marriage,"},{"id":"10-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “People who don’t forgive typically have _____  and blood pressure and other physical problems.”","options":["toward your partner","studies show blame","mate that probably","higher heart rates"],"correct":3,"proof":"People who don’t forgive typically have higher heart rates and blood pressure and other physical problems.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “While forgiveness will help my mate and my marriage, it first and…”","paragraphStart":"While forgiveness will help my mate and my marriage, it first and"},{"id":"10-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Countless _____ , stress and anger can cause or worsen diseases, such as cancer, heart disease, and various auto-immune disorders.”","options":["killed him slowly","mate that probably","studies show blame","higher heart rates"],"correct":2,"proof":"Countless studies show blame, stress and anger can cause or worsen diseases, such as cancer, heart disease, and various auto-immune disorders.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “While forgiveness will help my mate and my marriage, it first and…”","paragraphStart":"While forgiveness will help my mate and my marriage, it first and"},{"id":"10-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “There is no “I’ll forgive you if…’you promise to never do it again,’ or ‘if you’ll _____ ,’ or ‘you agree to get help’” or any other conditions I may come up with.”","options":["clean the house","learn to fight","hard to remember","slowly eats away"],"correct":0,"proof":"There is no “I’ll forgive you if…’you promise to never do it again,’ or ‘if you’ll clean the house,’ or ‘you agree to get help’” or any other conditions I may come up with.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Forgiveness is an action, not a feeling. If I wait until I…”","paragraphStart":"Forgiveness is an action, not a feeling. If I wait until I"},{"id":"10-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Forgiveness is not the same as _____  what happened.”","options":["clean the house","forgetting","hard to remember","learn to fight"],"correct":1,"proof":"Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting what happened.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting what happened. It’s normal for…”","paragraphStart":"Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting what happened. 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In the…”","paragraphStart":"Focus on what I am thankful for in my mate. In the"},{"id":"10-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “No matter how hopeless it may seem at the time, with God’s help and plan we can work through our difficulties and _____  together.”","options":["hard to remember","slowly eats away","killed him slowly","grow even closer"],"correct":3,"proof":"No matter how hopeless it may seem at the time, with God’s help and plan we can work through our difficulties and grow even closer together.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 10 — paragraph beginning “No matter how hopeless it may seem at the time, with God’s…”","paragraphStart":"No matter how hopeless it may seem at the time, with God’s"}]},{"number":11,"title":"Always Be Thankful","label":"Chapter 11 — Always Be Thankful","questions":[{"id":"11-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is so interesting that the two of us can be at the same event and _____  different impressions.”","options":["helps us remember","thankful we don’t","long time without","leave with 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time for no other reason than to thank God for some particular thing.”","options":["thank offering","God’s greatest","possible choices","common question"],"correct":0,"proof":"One these “free-will” offerings was the “thank offering”, sacrificed at any time for no other reason than to thank God for some particular thing.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “Under the Mosaic Law of the Old Testament there were two types…”","paragraphStart":"Under the Mosaic Law of the Old Testament there were two types","scripture":"Psalm 50:23 — an offering of thanks honors God."},{"id":"11-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Psalm 50:23 (GNV) states, “Giving thanks is the sacrifice that honors me.” So, having a _____  is clearly very important to God.”","options":["takes consistent effort","quoted above contains","spirit of thanksgiving","higher reported levels"],"correct":2,"proof":"Psalm 50:23 (GNV) states, “Giving thanks is the sacrifice that honors me.” So, having a spirit of thanksgiving is clearly very important to God.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “Under the Mosaic Law of the Old Testament there were two types…”","paragraphStart":"Under the Mosaic Law of the Old Testament there were two types","scripture":"Psalm 50:23 — thanksgiving honors God."},{"id":"11-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “But knowing we should thank him and _____  about it and actually thank him every day are two different things.”","options":["remembering to think","temptation to dwell","marriages move past","quoted above contains"],"correct":0,"proof":"But knowing we should thank him and remembering to think about it and actually thank him every day are two different things.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “With the belief that God has every one of our challenges under…”","paragraphStart":"With the belief that God has every one of our challenges under"},{"id":"11-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Without the conviction and some type of a plan, we can go for a _____  having that God-awareness.”","options":["long time without","leave with totally","helps us remember","thankful we don’t"],"correct":0,"proof":"Without the conviction and some type of a plan, we can go for a long time without having that God-awareness.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “With the belief that God has every one of our challenges under…”","paragraphStart":"With the belief that God has every one of our challenges under"},{"id":"11-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In our lens analogy, there are only two _____  for the lens through which we see life: gratitude or ingratitude.”","options":["common question","possible choices","thank offering","God’s greatest"],"correct":1,"proof":"In our lens analogy, there are only two possible choices for the lens through which we see life: gratitude or ingratitude.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “In our lens analogy, there are only two possible choices for the…”","paragraphStart":"In our lens analogy, there are only two possible choices for the"},{"id":"11-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “And we all know people who have terrible circumstances that we are _____  have, and they are very happy.”","options":["leave with totally","thankful we don’t","long time without","helps us remember"],"correct":1,"proof":"And we all know people who have terrible circumstances that we are thankful we don’t have, and they are very happy.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “In our lens analogy, there are only two possible choices for the…”","paragraphStart":"In our lens analogy, there are only two possible choices for the"},{"id":"11-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “So, a _____  we are asked is “where is the favorite place you have lived?” We can honestly say that every place we have lived is our favorite place.”","options":["possible choices","common question","thank offering","God’s greatest"],"correct":1,"proof":"So, a common question we are asked is “where is the favorite place you have lived?” We can honestly say that every place we have lived is our favorite place.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “We certainly don’t always look through the right lens, but here is…”","paragraphStart":"We certainly don’t always look through the right lens, but here is"},{"id":"11-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The results of the study showed that the daily gratitude group had _____  of alertness, energy, determination and optimism.”","options":["quoted above contains","spirit of thanksgiving","experiences the world","higher reported levels"],"correct":3,"proof":"The results of the study showed that the daily gratitude group had higher reported levels of alertness, energy, determination and optimism.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “As is always the case, God’s blessings accompany obedience to his commands.…”","paragraphStart":"As is always the case, God’s blessings accompany obedience to his commands."},{"id":"11-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one of the most important _____  our marriage alive and exciting.”","options":["thankful we don’t","helps us remember","long time without","parts of keeping"],"correct":3,"proof":"In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one of the most important parts of keeping our marriage alive and exciting.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one…”","paragraphStart":"In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one"},{"id":"11-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “As _____  the honeymoon stage, couples go from appreciating and loving every little detail about each other to taking each other for granted.”","options":["leave with totally","marriages move past","temptation to dwell","remembering to think"],"correct":1,"proof":"As marriages move past the honeymoon stage, couples go from appreciating and loving every little detail about each other to taking each other for granted.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one…”","paragraphStart":"In addition to thanking God, being thankful for each other is one"},{"id":"11-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Gratitude is vital part of any healthy and enduring relationship, but it _____  to keep it fresh and sincere.”","options":["higher reported levels","spirit of thanksgiving","partner expresses thanks","takes consistent effort"],"correct":3,"proof":"Gratitude is vital part of any healthy and enduring relationship, but it takes consistent effort to keep it fresh and sincere.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 11 — paragraph beginning “Gratitude 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When we were…”","paragraphStart":"Ingratitude makes it very difficult to enjoy the here-and-now. 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1 Thessalonians 5:11 — speech that builds others up and encouragement of one another."},{"id":"12-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The word encouragement, literally _____ , means to inspire with courage.”","options":["having solid Christian","must first understand","translated from Greek","navigate the uncharted"],"correct":2,"proof":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage."},{"id":"12-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “From the Bible, we find that encouragement can _____  places.”","options":["marriage a unique","directly from God","come from several","explore some ways"],"correct":2,"proof":"From the Bible, we find that encouragement can come from several places.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage."},{"id":"12-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “First it comes _____  (Psalms 10:17; Romans 15:5) and from the Bible (Romans 15:4).”","options":["come from several","directly from God","explore some ways","marriage a unique"],"correct":1,"proof":"First it comes directly from God (Psalms 10:17; Romans 15:5) and from the Bible (Romans 15:4).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.","scripture":"Psalm 10:17; Romans 15:5; Romans 15:4 — the book points to encouragement from God and Scripture."},{"id":"12-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “This is one reason that we repeatedly _____  relationship with God throughout this book.”","options":["filled with ups","praise your mate","emphasize a deep","directly from God"],"correct":2,"proof":"This is one reason that we repeatedly emphasize a deep relationship with God throughout this book.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage."},{"id":"12-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Then, _____  friends who know us well and who pray for us are sources of great encouragement.”","options":["single most encouraging","navigate the uncharted","must first understand","having solid Christian"],"correct":3,"proof":"Then, having solid Christian friends who know us well and who pray for us are sources of great encouragement.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage."},{"id":"12-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “But, next to God, no one can encourage _____ — her words, her look, her faith in me, her touch, and her example.”","options":["filled with ups","emphasize a deep","me like Gloria","praise your mate"],"correct":2,"proof":"But, next to God, no one can encourage me like Gloria— her words, her look, her faith in me, her touch, and her example.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage.…”","paragraphStart":"The word encouragement, literally translated from Greek, means to inspire with courage."},{"id":"12-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In this chapter we are going to _____  that we can effectively encourage each other as husband and wife.”","options":["marriage a unique","come from several","explore some ways","directly from God"],"correct":2,"proof":"In this chapter we are going to explore some ways that we can effectively encourage each other as husband and wife.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “In this chapter we are going to explore some ways that we…”","paragraphStart":"In this chapter we are going to explore some ways that we"},{"id":"12-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In order to give the kind of encouragement that really counts, we _____  each other.”","options":["must first understand","navigate the uncharted","having solid Christian","translated from Greek"],"correct":0,"proof":"In order to give the kind of encouragement that really counts, we must first understand each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of…”","paragraphStart":"Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of"},{"id":"12-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Each of us brings to _____  set of needs and backgrounds.”","options":["come from several","explore some ways","directly from God","marriage a unique"],"correct":3,"proof":"Each of us brings to marriage a unique set of needs and backgrounds.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of…”","paragraphStart":"Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of"},{"id":"12-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Even though we may love each other and have the _____ , we are effective only as we come to understand each other’s needs.”","options":["marriage is shaped","things that bother","directly from God","best of intentions"],"correct":3,"proof":"Even though we may love each other and have the best of intentions, we are effective only as we come to understand each other’s needs.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of…”","paragraphStart":"Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of"},{"id":"12-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He explains how to show love to your mate and _____  to do so: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.”","options":["describes five ways","best of intentions","marriage is shaped","become each other’s"],"correct":0,"proof":"He explains how to show love to your mate and describes five ways to do so: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of…”","paragraphStart":"Learn what encourages your partner. In order to give the kind of"},{"id":"12-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Resolve to change the _____  your mate.”","options":["best of intentions","explore some ways","marriage is shaped","things that bother"],"correct":3,"proof":"Resolve to change the things that bother your mate.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Resolve to change the things that bother your mate. There are times…”","paragraphStart":"Resolve to change the things that bother your mate. There are times"},{"id":"12-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Find at least one thing to _____  for every day.”","options":["explore some ways","filled with ups","praise your mate","emphasize a deep"],"correct":2,"proof":"Find at least one thing to praise your mate for every day.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “Find at least one thing to praise your mate for every day.…”","paragraphStart":"Find at least one thing to praise your mate for every day."},{"id":"12-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The _____  thing in our life is our relationship with God.”","options":["having solid Christian","single most encouraging","navigate the uncharted","wife regularly encourage"],"correct":1,"proof":"The single most encouraging thing in our life is our relationship with God.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The single most encouraging thing in our life is our relationship with…”","paragraphStart":"The single most 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confidence that comes from knowing that both of us have the same standards make all the difference as we navigate the uncharted waters of raising a family, getting older, and facing health challenges.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 12 — paragraph beginning “The single most encouraging thing in our life is our relationship with…”","paragraphStart":"The single most encouraging thing in our life is our relationship with"}]},{"number":13,"title":"Have Realistic Expectations","label":"Chapter 13 — Have Realistic Expectations","questions":[{"id":"13-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Regardless of how much we may try to encourage each other, at times we can be _____  expectations.”","options":["coat because Jesus","source of happiness","become a different","surprised by unmet"],"correct":3,"proof":"Regardless of how much we may try to encourage each other, at times we can be surprised by unmet expectations.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “Regardless of how much we may try to encourage each other, at…”","paragraphStart":"Regardless of how much we may try to encourage each other, at"},{"id":"13-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Marriage is challenging because each of us brings our long list of expectations that have been _____ , and we must decide how to mesh both sets together.”","options":["enjoy the sunset","built over years","embrace the good","my hypocrisy hit"],"correct":1,"proof":"Marriage is challenging because each of us brings our long list of expectations that have been built over years, and we must decide how to mesh both sets together.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “Marriage is challenging because each of us brings our long list of…”","paragraphStart":"Marriage is challenging because each of us brings our long list of"},{"id":"13-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Not only are we unaware of the expectations that the other is _____  to the marriage, we often are 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established certain…”","paragraphStart":"As adults, we have all lived long enough to have established certain"},{"id":"13-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The _____  us that expectations are either believing something is going to happen or believing something should be a certain way.”","options":["dictionary definition tells","come from expectations","types of expectations","established certain tastes"],"correct":0,"proof":"The dictionary definition tells us that expectations are either believing something is going to happen or believing something should be a certain way.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “Everyone has expectations, but they are very tricky things. The dictionary definition…”","paragraphStart":"Everyone has expectations, but they are very tricky things. The dictionary definition"},{"id":"13-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “So, it should come as no surprise that there are different _____ , some are helpful, and some are destructive.”","options":["source of happiness","types of expectations","come from expectations","priority for herself"],"correct":1,"proof":"So, it should come as no surprise that there are different types of expectations, some are helpful, and some are destructive.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “Everyone has expectations, but they are very tricky things. The dictionary definition…”","paragraphStart":"Everyone has expectations, but they are very tricky things. 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an important person could be late and it not bother me, but the most important person in my life, Gloria, could be late and I would be upset with her.”","options":["worse than yours","enjoy the sunset","my hypocrisy hit","built over years"],"correct":2,"proof":"Then one day my hypocrisy hit me; an important person could be late and it not bother me, but the most important person in my life, Gloria, could be late and I would be upset with her.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “I have always been a stickler for being on time for any…”","paragraphStart":"I have always been a stickler for being on time for any"},{"id":"13-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Gloria recognized the value of timeliness to me and decided to work on making it a _____  to encourage me and to help us grow in our unity.”","options":["surprised by unmet","priority for herself","types of expectations","source of happiness"],"correct":1,"proof":"Gloria recognized the value of timeliness to me and decided to work on making it a priority for herself to encourage me and to help us grow in our unity.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “I have always been a stickler for being on time for any…”","paragraphStart":"I have always been a stickler for being on time for any"},{"id":"13-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Of all the problems that _____ , the most common are those that have not been discussed—they are unspoken, so they come as a surprise.”","options":["priority for herself","types of expectations","come from expectations","source of happiness"],"correct":2,"proof":"Of all the problems that come from expectations, the most common are those that have not been discussed—they are unspoken, so they come as a surprise.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “Of all the problems that come from expectations, the most common are…”","paragraphStart":"Of all the problems that come from expectations, the most common are"},{"id":"13-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “There was a beautiful sunset, so I wanted us to have a romantic _____  the sunset hand-in-hand.”","options":["met over time","fight the next","walk and enjoy","want to examine"],"correct":2,"proof":"There was a beautiful sunset, so I wanted us to have a romantic walk and enjoy the sunset hand-in-hand.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “In our travels, one trip to Europe included a week of driving…”","paragraphStart":"In our travels, one trip to Europe included a week of driving"},{"id":"13-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “As we worked through our _____  day, we learned a very important lesson about the danger of unspoken expectations.”","options":["walk and enjoy","met over time","want to examine","fight the next"],"correct":3,"proof":"As we worked through our fight the next day, we learned a very important lesson about the danger of unspoken expectations.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 13 — paragraph beginning “As we worked through our fight the next day, we learned a…”","paragraphStart":"As we worked through our fight the next day, we learned a"},{"id":"13-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Gloria had wanted to _____ , too; 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paragraph beginning “Wanting to be happy is not a bad thing, if it is…”","paragraphStart":"Wanting to be happy is not a bad thing, if it is"},{"id":"14-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “About the only thing we can all agree on is that we want to be happy all the time, and most of us would say we _____  to be happy, too.”","options":["married the wrong","want everyone else","comes from knowing","source of happiness"],"correct":1,"proof":"About the only thing we can all agree on is that we want to be happy all the time, and most of us would say we want everyone else to be happy, too.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 14 — paragraph beginning “Wanting to be happy is not a bad thing, if it is…”","paragraphStart":"Wanting to be happy is not a bad thing, if it is"},{"id":"14-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Satan has lied to us: marriage will collapse under our expectations if we weigh it down under the _____  of happiness.”","options":["based upon 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“Unhappiness in your marriage is not a sign that you _____  person, or that you should leave your mate.”","options":["comes from knowing","times don’t mix","want everyone else","married the wrong"],"correct":3,"proof":"Unhappiness in your marriage is not a sign that you married the wrong person, or that you should leave your mate.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 14 — paragraph beginning “Unhappiness in your marriage is not a sign that you married the…”","paragraphStart":"Unhappiness in your marriage is not a sign that you married the"},{"id":"14-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It would be easy to blame our unhappiness on things like not _____  time together, allowing bitterness and resentment to build in our hearts, or on communication issues.”","options":["based upon circumstances","become stepping stones","spending enough quality","things aren’t happening"],"correct":2,"proof":"It would be easy to blame our unhappiness on things like not spending enough quality 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It is the…”","paragraphStart":"Joy is not dependent on what happens to us. It is the"},{"id":"14-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Happiness is _____ , meaning if things go well, we are happy, but if it happens that something bad occurs our happiness is gone.”","options":["world’s unrealistic ideas","things aren’t happening","spending enough quality","based upon circumstances"],"correct":3,"proof":"Happiness is based upon circumstances, meaning if things go well, we are happy, but if it happens that something bad occurs our happiness is gone.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 14 — paragraph beginning “Joy is not dependent on what happens to us. It is the…”","paragraphStart":"Joy is not dependent on what happens to us. It is the"},{"id":"14-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Constant happiness does not exist in this life; because life has its hard times, and happiness and hard _____  well.”","options":["begin to focus","times don’t mix","making us holy","married the wrong"],"correct":1,"proof":"Constant happiness does not exist in this life; because life has its hard times, and happiness and hard times don’t mix well.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 14 — paragraph beginning “Happiness is a great thing, if it is kept under God’s control.…”","paragraphStart":"Happiness is a great thing, if it is kept under God’s control."},{"id":"14-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “But joy is a _____ , and it can exist in all circumstances and situations.”","options":["find at least","king who set","making us holy","gift from God"],"correct":3,"proof":"But joy is a gift from God, and it can exist in all circumstances and situations.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 14 — paragraph beginning “Happiness is a great thing, if it is kept under God’s control.…”","paragraphStart":"Happiness is a great thing, if it is kept under God’s control."}]},{"number":15,"title":"Practice Patience","label":"Chapter 15 — Practice Patience","questions":[{"id":"15-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is important that we not _____  of this fact.”","options":["bound to become","kids are being","lose sight","couple can work"],"correct":2,"proof":"It is important that we not lose sight of this fact.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “We are not finished products as individuals and as a couple, and…”","paragraphStart":"We are not finished products as individuals and as a couple, and"},{"id":"15-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “When two people with different personalities, preferences and quirks live together, they’re _____  irritated or angry at times.”","options":["kids are being","couple can work","Jesus got angry","bound to become"],"correct":3,"proof":"When two people with different personalities, preferences and quirks live together, they’re bound to become irritated or angry at times.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Some behaviors and personal characteristics have been with us for a lifetime.…”","paragraphStart":"Some behaviors and personal characteristics have been with us for a lifetime."},{"id":"15-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Patience is the ability to deal with _____  work out the way we would like without reacting in anger or frustration.”","options":["feelings of bitterness","partners must develop","control my impatience","anything that doesn’t"],"correct":3,"proof":"Patience is the ability to deal with anything that doesn’t work out the way we would like without reacting in anger or frustration.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Patience is the ability to deal with anything that doesn’t work out…”","paragraphStart":"Patience is the ability to deal with anything that doesn’t work out"},{"id":"15-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It’s an essential virtue for living together day after day in relative peace, _____  to change our mate to our liking.”","options":["without constantly struggling","feelings of bitterness","frustrated or unreachable","control my impatience"],"correct":0,"proof":"It’s an essential virtue for living together day after day in relative peace, without constantly struggling to change our mate to our liking.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Patience is the ability to deal with anything that doesn’t work out…”","paragraphStart":"Patience is the ability to deal with anything that doesn’t work out"},{"id":"15-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The events of the day give us plenty of opportunity to practice our patience; waiting at the drive-through window, _____  traffic or doing our taxes.”","options":["enough damage done","break the negative","go through various","enduring rush hour"],"correct":3,"proof":"The events of the day give us plenty of opportunity to practice our patience; waiting at the drive-through window, enduring rush hour traffic or doing our taxes.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Patience in marriage begins with each of us growing in our own…”","paragraphStart":"Patience in marriage begins with each of us growing in our own"},{"id":"15-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “On our wedding day we probably consider our _____ ; before long we see a few things we could help them improve.”","options":["mate nearly perfect","making them angrier","go through various","enduring rush hour"],"correct":0,"proof":"On our wedding day we probably consider our mate nearly perfect; before long we see a few things we could help them improve.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Within marriage, patience involves discerning what needs to be changed and what…”","paragraphStart":"Within marriage, patience involves discerning what needs to be changed and what"},{"id":"15-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Some behaviors need to be changed for the good of the marriage, and _____  us to make the changes.”","options":["enduring rush hour","enough damage done","walk away wounded","patience can help"],"correct":3,"proof":"Some behaviors need to be changed for the good of the marriage, and patience can help us to make the changes.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Within marriage, patience involves discerning what needs to be changed and what…”","paragraphStart":"Within marriage, patience involves discerning what needs to be changed and what"},{"id":"15-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is not helpful to sit stone-faced and listen to their _____  and then get up and walk out of the room with no comment.”","options":["hurts and complaints","making them angrier","partners must develop","control my impatience"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is not helpful to sit stone-faced and listen to their hurts and complaints and then get up and walk out of the room with no comment.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “Patience does not mean that we do nothing when our mate is…”","paragraphStart":"Patience does not mean that we do nothing when our mate is"},{"id":"15-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “So, it results in a big argument that no one wins; 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For some…”","paragraphStart":"Find a method to break the negative patterns of impatience. For some"},{"id":"15-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “They can stem from selfishness, self- hate, disappointment, unmet expectations, abuse, injustice, offenses real and perceived, jealousy, _____  dreams and goals, and many other sources.”","options":["without constantly struggling","frustrated or unreachable","feelings of bitterness","anything that doesn’t"],"correct":1,"proof":"They can stem from selfishness, self- hate, disappointment, unmet expectations, abuse, injustice, offenses real and perceived, jealousy, frustrated or unreachable dreams and goals, and many other sources.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “The famous American humorist Will Rogers once said, “People who fly into…”","paragraphStart":"The famous American humorist Will Rogers once said, “People who fly into"},{"id":"15-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Anger in a marriage and family can create _____ , hostility, fear, resentment, revenge, and 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general self-awareness of the destructive effects, making them angrier at themselves which only intensifies the anger toward others.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “The famous American humorist Will Rogers once said, “People who fly into…”","paragraphStart":"The famous American humorist Will Rogers once said, “People who fly into"},{"id":"15-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If I (Al) could do one thing over in the years that our three girls we still growing up at home, it would be to _____  and anger that was frequently directed at our girls.”","options":["partners must develop","control my impatience","feelings of bitterness","anything that doesn’t"],"correct":1,"proof":"If I (Al) could do one thing over in the years that our three girls we still growing up at home, it would be to control my impatience and anger that was frequently directed at our girls.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 15 — paragraph beginning “If I (Al) could do one thing over 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today to keep in close touch.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 16 — paragraph beginning “With that kind of imagination, I was the “wreck” emotionally by the…”","paragraphStart":"With that kind of imagination, I was the “wreck” emotionally by the"},{"id":"16-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “After Al calmed me down, he went on to his friend’s house, and I went to bed _____  fears and tears.”","options":["inevitably will face","exhausted from needless","worried about being","French philosopher named"],"correct":1,"proof":"After Al calmed me down, he went on to his friend’s house, and I went to bed exhausted from needless fears and tears.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 16 — paragraph beginning “With that kind of imagination, I was the “wreck” emotionally by the…”","paragraphStart":"With that kind of imagination, I was the “wreck” emotionally by the"},{"id":"16-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Both that lesson and _____  have strengthened my convictions so 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The pregnancy went well until I went into labor seven weeks early.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Al and I were just such a couple, deeply in love and…”","paragraphStart":"Al and I were just such a couple, deeply in love and"},{"id":"17-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “He would have been the first grandbaby on both sides of our _____  everything was different.”","options":["labor seven weeks","family and suddenly","married will agree","knowing he gives"],"correct":1,"proof":"He would have been the first grandbaby on both sides of our family and suddenly everything was different.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Al and I were just such a couple, deeply in love and…”","paragraphStart":"Al and I were just such a couple, deeply in love and"},{"id":"17-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “A _____  over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year- old husband and being left as a widow with three young children.”","options":["ourselves have received","friend recently agonized","young daughter drowning","greatest character changes"],"correct":1,"proof":"A friend recently agonized over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year- old husband and being left as a widow with three young children.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “A friend recently agonized over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year-old husband…”","paragraphStart":"A friend recently agonized over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year-old husband"},{"id":"17-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Who of us would not be asking, “Why?” Humanly, we look for answers, and not infrequently, the _____  don’t come.”","options":["know that Satan","plan for growing","answers we seek","take many forms"],"correct":2,"proof":"Who of us would not be asking, “Why?” Humanly, we look for answers, and not infrequently, the answers we seek don’t come.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “A friend recently agonized over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year-old husband…”","paragraphStart":"A friend recently agonized over the sudden death of her thirty-two-year-old husband"},{"id":"17-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For us as Christians, we know that our God is all powerful, but we also _____  is a very real and powerful enemy.”","options":["answers we seek","take many forms","know that Satan","afraid to tell"],"correct":2,"proof":"For us as Christians, we know that our God is all powerful, but we also know that Satan is a very real and powerful enemy.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “For us as Christians, we know that our God is all powerful,…”","paragraphStart":"For us as Christians, we know that our God is all powerful,"},{"id":"17-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it is always Satan’s will to _____  from God!”","options":["pull us away","going to keep","come our way","couple that he"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it is always Satan’s will to pull us away from God!","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it…”","paragraphStart":"It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it"},{"id":"17-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Years ago, I (Gloria) heard it said, “You can waste your time, your energy, your money, but don’t waste your suffering!” This _____  attention.”","options":["statement got my","knowing he gives","take many forms","plan for growing"],"correct":0,"proof":"Years ago, I (Gloria) heard it said, “You can waste your time, your energy, your money, but don’t waste your suffering!” This statement got my attention.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it…”","paragraphStart":"It is always God’s will to pull us closer to him; it"},{"id":"17-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “As we look back at our life together, it seems that the deepest lessons we have learned and the _____  we have made have come through the hard times.”","options":["friend recently agonized","ourselves have received","greatest character changes","willingly accept struggles"],"correct":2,"proof":"As we look back at our life together, it seems that the deepest lessons we have learned and the greatest character changes we have made have come through the hard times.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Surrender brings comfort and peace and reinforces our trust in God. As…”","paragraphStart":"Surrender brings comfort and peace and reinforces our trust in God. As"},{"id":"17-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Whatever happens in life, we want to draw closer to God _____  us the ultimate victory.”","options":["take many forms","knowing he gives","plan for growing","statement got my"],"correct":1,"proof":"Whatever happens in life, we want to draw closer to God knowing he gives us the ultimate victory.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Surrender brings comfort and peace and reinforces our trust in God. As…”","paragraphStart":"Surrender brings comfort and peace and reinforces our trust in God. As"},{"id":"17-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Hard times can _____  such as illness and loss of loved ones, infidelity, addiction, job loss, infertility, miscarriage, in-law problems, finances, and challenging children.”","options":["know that Satan","take many forms","statement got my","answers we seek"],"correct":1,"proof":"Hard times can take many forms such as illness and loss of loved ones, infidelity, addiction, job loss, infertility, miscarriage, in-law problems, finances, and challenging children.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Hard times can take many forms such as illness and loss of…”","paragraphStart":"Hard times can take many forms such as illness and loss of"},{"id":"17-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “On the other hand, a couple that we knew suffered the tragedy of their _____  in a back-yard pool.”","options":["friend recently agonized","ourselves have received","willingly accept struggles","young daughter drowning"],"correct":3,"proof":"On the other hand, a couple that we knew suffered the tragedy of their young daughter drowning in a back-yard pool.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “On the other hand, a couple that we knew suffered the tragedy…”","paragraphStart":"On the other hand, a couple that we knew suffered the tragedy"},{"id":"17-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Resolve together that you’re _____  going “for better or for worse.” Your commitment will make all the difference!”","options":["come our way","going to keep","afraid to tell","couple that he"],"correct":1,"proof":"Resolve together that you’re going to keep going “for better or for worse.” Your commitment will make all the difference!","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Never give up! Don’t expect problems to be solved automatically. Time doesn’t…”","paragraphStart":"Never give up! Don’t expect problems to be solved automatically. Time doesn’t"},{"id":"17-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “You need friends who love both of you, who are wise, who have time for you and who will not be _____  you what you need to hear.”","options":["answers we seek","take many forms","couple that he","afraid to tell"],"correct":3,"proof":"You need friends who love both of you, who are wise, who have time for you and who will not be afraid to tell you what you need to hear.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Surround yourself with advisors. You need friends who love both of you,…”","paragraphStart":"Surround yourself with advisors. You need friends who love both of you,"},{"id":"17-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “And we are amazed at the opportunities we have to help and “comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we _____  from God” (2 Corinthians 1:4).”","options":["young daughter drowning","willingly accept struggles","friend recently agonized","ourselves have received"],"correct":3,"proof":"And we are amazed at the opportunities we have to help and “comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Corinthians 1:4).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “Looking back over the years, we can see God’s molding and shaping…”","paragraphStart":"Looking back over the years, we can see God’s molding and shaping","scripture":"2 Corinthians 1:4 — God comforts us so we can comfort others."},{"id":"17-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of God’s _____  and maturing us as individuals and as a couple.”","options":["plan for growing","labor seven weeks","knowing he gives","statement got my"],"correct":0,"proof":"None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of God’s plan for growing and maturing us as individuals and as a couple.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of…”","paragraphStart":"None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of"},{"id":"17-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “May we let God use them to shape us into the _____  desires for us to be—one made in his image.”","options":["know that Satan","going to keep","couple that he","afraid to tell"],"correct":2,"proof":"May we let God use them to shape us into the couple that he desires for us to be—one made in his image.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 17 — paragraph beginning “None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of…”","paragraphStart":"None of us enjoy hard times, but they are a part of"}]},{"number":18,"title":"Enjoy Romance","label":"Chapter 18 — Enjoy Romance","questions":[{"id":"18-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Romance is an outward expression of that love, the language of the heart; 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When we were dating,…”","paragraphStart":"A major key to romance is our thinking. When we were dating,"},{"id":"18-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die, but negative, critical _____  and kill it.”","options":["Gloria’s parents showed","evoke heart throbbing","thinking will sabotage","contrived and selfish"],"correct":2,"proof":"Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die, but negative, critical thinking will sabotage and kill it.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die,…”","paragraphStart":"Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die,"},{"id":"18-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Paul urges us in 2 Corinthians 10:5 to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Resolving conflict and _____  with positive, loving ones is essential to sustaining a romantic marriage.”","options":["replacing negating thoughts","gentle physical closeness","they’re beautiful believe","Gloria’s parents showed"],"correct":0,"proof":"Paul urges us in 2 Corinthians 10:5 to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Resolving conflict and replacing negating thoughts with positive, loving ones is essential to sustaining a romantic marriage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die,…”","paragraphStart":"Not thinking about being romantic will allow the romance to slowly die,","scripture":"2 Corinthians 10:5 — take thoughts captive; the authors apply this to replacing negative thoughts."},{"id":"18-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “She let me know calmly, but sternly, that a husband is to _____ , and she didn’t feel protected or safe.”","options":["protect his wife","spends only four","apparent one day","my mate anymore"],"correct":0,"proof":"She let me know calmly, but sternly, that a husband is to protect his wife, and she didn’t feel protected or safe.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “The wife needs to feel safe and secure with her man. That…”","paragraphStart":"The wife needs to feel safe and secure with her man. That"},{"id":"18-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Some studies have shown that the typical couple _____  minutes a day in meaningful conversation with each other.”","options":["protect his wife","spends only four","my mate anymore","apparent one day"],"correct":1,"proof":"Some studies have shown that the typical couple spends only four minutes a day in meaningful conversation with each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “Regular time alone together is essential, not just in the bedroom. Some…”","paragraphStart":"Regular time alone together is essential, not just in the bedroom. Some"},{"id":"18-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It doesn’t have to be an expensive date for you to be alone together; _____ , like you did when dating.”","options":["evoke heart throbbing","making those special","use some imagination","still being pursued"],"correct":2,"proof":"It doesn’t have to be an expensive date for you to be alone together; use some imagination, like you did when dating.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “Regular time alone together is essential, not just in the bedroom. Some…”","paragraphStart":"Regular time alone together is essential, not just in the bedroom. 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One day in Boston, we had a beautiful snowstorm."},{"id":"18-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Focusing on anything you can do, as creatively as you can to make your _____  and valued.”","options":["understand and accept","spouse feel cherished","evoke heart throbbing","contrived and selfish"],"correct":1,"proof":"Focusing on anything you can do, as creatively as you can to make your spouse feel cherished and valued.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “We need to communicate in as many ways as we can, “You…”","paragraphStart":"We need to communicate in as many ways as we can, “You"},{"id":"18-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Men who tell their wives _____  it with more conviction every time the words leave their lips.”","options":["replacing negating thoughts","gentle physical closeness","Gloria’s parents showed","they’re beautiful believe"],"correct":3,"proof":"Men who tell their wives they’re beautiful believe it with more conviction every time the words leave their lips.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “Husbands; tell her she is beautiful (beauty is more than skin deep).…”","paragraphStart":"Husbands; tell her she is beautiful (beauty is more than skin deep)."},{"id":"18-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Most women like hand holding, kissing, and _____  more than men do.”","options":["gentle physical closeness","replacing negating thoughts","Gloria’s parents showed","they’re beautiful believe"],"correct":0,"proof":"Most women like hand holding, kissing, and gentle physical closeness more than men do.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 18 — paragraph beginning “There is great power in tender touch. 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“Sex is simply the act of intercourse; the physical _____  a good sexual experience and orgasm with your partner.”","options":["inhibitions and barriers","serious health challenges","gratification of enjoying","frustrations while knowing"],"correct":2,"proof":"Sex is simply the act of intercourse; the physical gratification of enjoying a good sexual experience and orgasm with your partner.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 19 — paragraph beginning “‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but they are distinctly different.…”","paragraphStart":"‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but they are distinctly different."},{"id":"19-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The sexual act can happen with or without intimacy and _____ ; but with intimacy added, the results are incredible.”","options":["way to express","want and teach","cannot be met","still be great"],"correct":3,"proof":"The sexual act can happen with or without intimacy and still be great; but with intimacy added, the results are incredible.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 19 — paragraph beginning “‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but they are distinctly different.…”","paragraphStart":"‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but they are distinctly different."},{"id":"19-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In fact, there are several types of intimacy, but there are two that are important in our _____ : emotional and sexual intimacy.”","options":["special unique physical","inhibitions and barriers","man desperately wants","discussion of marriage"],"correct":3,"proof":"In fact, there are several types of intimacy, but there are two that are important in our discussion of marriage: emotional and sexual intimacy.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 19 — paragraph beginning “‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but they are distinctly different.…”","paragraphStart":"‘Sex’ and ‘intimacy’ are often used interchangeably, but 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When we fill our minds"},{"id":"20-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Studies show that porn makes viewers more critical of their _____  satisfied with their romantic relationship and sex life.”","options":["husband is truly","I have struggled","partner and less","later she walked"],"correct":2,"proof":"Studies show that porn makes viewers more critical of their partner and less satisfied with their romantic relationship and sex life.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 20 — paragraph beginning “Porn creates destructive comparisons and unreal expectations. When we fill our minds…”","paragraphStart":"Porn creates destructive comparisons and unreal expectations. When we fill our minds"},{"id":"20-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “And if this porn-partner ever fails to keep us entertained, she can _____  with the click of a computer mouse.”","options":["maintain its power","simply be exchanged","Satan’s great curses","least ninety percent"],"correct":1,"proof":"And if this porn-partner ever fails to keep us entertained, she can simply be exchanged with the click of a computer mouse.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 20 — paragraph beginning “Porn creates destructive comparisons and unreal expectations. When we fill our minds…”","paragraphStart":"Porn creates destructive comparisons and unreal expectations. When we fill our minds"},{"id":"20-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It may be surprising, but porn use affects the brain in _____  to addictive drugs and can be just as addictive.”","options":["ways very similar","I have struggled","reacts to healthy","later she walked"],"correct":0,"proof":"It may be surprising, but porn use affects the brain in ways very similar to addictive drugs and can be just as addictive.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 20 — paragraph beginning “It may be surprising, but porn use affects the brain in ways…”","paragraphStart":"It may be surprising, but porn use affects the brain in ways"},{"id":"20-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Deep inside the brain, _____  a “reward center” which releases “pleasure” chemicals into our brain whenever we do something healthy, like enjoy a romantic time together.”","options":["take those expectations","there’s something called","enjoyed by respectable","longer respond 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chapter: “Helen Keller said, “Life is _____  adventure or nothing at all.” Marriage should be an incredible, thrilling, astounding, life-long adventure; God designed it that way.”","options":["either a daring","he often called","Jordan were cut","event ten years"],"correct":0,"proof":"Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” Marriage should be an incredible, thrilling, astounding, life-long adventure; God designed it that way.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 21 — paragraph beginning “Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at…”","paragraphStart":"Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at"},{"id":"21-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “From the very start of our marriage, we had a goal to never let _____  and ordinary.”","options":["part is remembering","things become dull","happened last year","stones mean?’ tell"],"correct":1,"proof":"From the very start of our marriage, we had a goal to 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Think of everything that exists;…”","paragraphStart":"God is the original and ultimate dreamer. Think of everything that exists;"},{"id":"22-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that _____  and mind and motivates us to make it happen.”","options":["sparked an interest","energizes our heart","having wild visions","change our present"],"correct":1,"proof":"A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that energizes our heart and mind and motivates us to make it happen.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that energizes…”","paragraphStart":"A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that energizes"},{"id":"22-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Dreaming is the opposite of simply drifting along, and it can be the _____  and boredom.”","options":["keeping marriage alive","difference between excitement","prince finally carrying","poor university students"],"correct":1,"proof":"Dreaming is the opposite of simply drifting along, and it can be the difference between excitement and boredom.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that energizes…”","paragraphStart":"A dream is just an inspiring picture of the future that energizes"},{"id":"22-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “That is the power of dreams—to have hope and to try to _____  situation for the better.”","options":["isn’t as exciting","anything they ask","change our present","went around taking"],"correct":2,"proof":"That is the power of dreams—to have hope and to try to change our present situation for the better.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “Dreams motivate us and keep us from giving up in the hard…”","paragraphStart":"Dreams motivate us and keep us from giving up in the hard"},{"id":"22-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Jesus said, “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about _____  for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.” (Matthew 18:19).”","options":["went around taking","isn’t as exciting","anything they ask","having an amazing"],"correct":2,"proof":"Jesus said, “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.” (Matthew 18:19).","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “Dreaming as an individual is important but dreaming as a married couple…”","paragraphStart":"Dreaming as an individual is important but dreaming as a married couple","scripture":"Matthew 18:19 — Jesus speaks about two agreeing in what they ask."},{"id":"22-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “That _____  that only grew stronger from there, because we each had the identical dream of serving God and the church on the mission field.”","options":["change our present","energizes our heart","having wild visions","sparked an interest"],"correct":3,"proof":"That sparked an interest that only grew stronger from there, because we each had the identical dream of serving God and the church on the mission field.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “On Al and my very first date, we shared some of our…”","paragraphStart":"On Al and my very first date, we shared some of our"},{"id":"22-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Nothing, not even being _____ , dampen our enthusiasm for the plans and dreams we have for our years ahead.”","options":["benefits of dreaming","poor university students","prince finally carrying","keeping marriage alive"],"correct":1,"proof":"Nothing, not even being poor university students, dampen our enthusiasm for the plans and dreams we have for our years ahead.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “We all begin our marriage with dreams. 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Oh yes, we remember them"},{"id":"22-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The wedding is a memory, the mortgage is a reality, the _____  is daily, and the kids are crying.”","options":["having an amazing","choosing to face","focus on trying","pressure of life"],"correct":3,"proof":"The wedding is a memory, the mortgage is a reality, the pressure of life is daily, and the kids are crying.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “But what now? The wedding is a memory, the mortgage is a…”","paragraphStart":"But what now? The wedding is a memory, the mortgage is a"},{"id":"22-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “His friend asks him how he is _____  the end.”","options":["since they show","anything they ask","choosing to face","pressure of life"],"correct":2,"proof":"His friend asks him how he is choosing to face the end.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “We are Country and Western music fans, and Tim McGraw is one…”","paragraphStart":"We are Country and Western music fans, and Tim McGraw is one"},{"id":"22-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “But we do need to understand that dreaming about _____  life together is vitally important.”","options":["change our present","isn’t as exciting","having an amazing","anything they ask"],"correct":2,"proof":"But we do need to understand that dreaming about having an amazing life together is vitally important.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 22 — paragraph beginning “Fortunately, we don’t have to wait for a 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that you will at least see each other every week.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 23 — paragraph beginning “Ideally, they will be in the same church group as you, so…”","paragraphStart":"Ideally, they will be in the same church group as you, so"},{"id":"23-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “You need to be totally honest with them and to grow in the relationship with them to the point that you can _____  about any aspect of your marriage with them. including sexual issues.”","options":["must come near","help you rely","wants to excel","share or talk"],"correct":3,"proof":"You need to be totally honest with them and to grow in the relationship with them to the point that you can share or talk about any aspect of your marriage with them. including sexual issues.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 23 — paragraph beginning “You need to be totally honest with them and to grow in…”","paragraphStart":"You need to be totally honest with them and to grow 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It is a dangerous"},{"id":"24-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Some of our _____  were our early years together when we had very little, and most of what we had, we bought used.”","options":["best memories","things in early","money issues","way to keep"],"correct":0,"proof":"Some of our best memories were our early years together when we had very little, and most of what we had, we bought used.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 24 — paragraph beginning “Learn to live on less than you earn. It is a dangerous…”","paragraphStart":"Learn to live on less than you earn. It is a dangerous"},{"id":"24-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Save until you can afford a purchase, _____  items like a car or house. 11.”","options":["couples even know","except for major","giving more back","place in building"],"correct":1,"proof":"Save until you can afford a purchase, except for major items like a car or house.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 24 — paragraph beginning “Save until you can afford a purchase, except for major items like…”","paragraphStart":"Save until you can afford a purchase, except for major items like"},{"id":"24-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Rather we committed to use the additional money to help the church and other _____  our standard of living at a slower rate.”","options":["individuals while raising","actual expenses compared","essential for building","balancing a checkbook"],"correct":0,"proof":"Rather we committed to use the additional money to help the church and other individuals while raising our standard of living at a slower rate.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 24 — paragraph beginning “We decided at the beginning of our marriage that as God blessed…”","paragraphStart":"We decided at the beginning of our marriage that as God blessed"},{"id":"24-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “God and _____  in our hearts and minds for control of our material wealth and the battle never ends.”","options":["balancing a checkbook","merge your finances","Satan continually war","essential for building"],"correct":2,"proof":"God and Satan continually war in our hearts and minds for control of our material wealth and the battle never ends.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 24 — paragraph beginning “God and Satan continually war in our hearts and minds for control…”","paragraphStart":"God and Satan continually war in our hearts and minds for control"},{"id":"24-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Surrender to God in this area of our marriage is _____  the marriage that we all long for.”","options":["essential for building","balancing a checkbook","Satan continually war","actual expenses compared"],"correct":0,"proof":"Surrender to God in this area of our marriage is essential for building the marriage that we all long for.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 24 — paragraph beginning “God and Satan continually war in our hearts and minds for control…”","paragraphStart":"God and Satan continually war in our hearts and minds for control"}]},{"number":25,"title":"Train Your Children","label":"Chapter 25 — Train Your Children","questions":[{"id":"25-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Children are a _____ , but a gift that has a profound shaping-effect on any marriage.”","options":["goal of raising","don’t put God","way to teach","gift from God"],"correct":3,"proof":"Children are a gift from God, but a gift that has a profound shaping-effect on any marriage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “We realize that not everyone reading this book will have children; but…”","paragraphStart":"We realize that not everyone reading this book will have children; but"},{"id":"25-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The top of our list is to tell them to have the _____  them to love God.”","options":["way to teach","gift from God","don’t put God","goal of raising"],"correct":3,"proof":"The top of our list is to tell them to have the goal of raising them to love God.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Through the years, many younger parents have asked us for advice about…”","paragraphStart":"Through the years, many younger parents have asked us for advice about"},{"id":"25-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Since this a book _____ , we can devote only this chapter to rearing children, when an entire book is really needed.”","options":["primarily about marriage","modern parenting guru","serious marriage problem","effective and unchangeable"],"correct":0,"proof":"Since this a book primarily about marriage, we can devote only this chapter to rearing children, when an entire book is really needed.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Through the years, many younger parents have asked us for advice about…”","paragraphStart":"Through the years, many younger parents have asked us for advice about"},{"id":"25-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Fortunately, we knew there were principles that we could depend on to be _____  from the one true expert—God.”","options":["primarily about marriage","effective and unchangeable","serious marriage problem","dad’s favorite sports"],"correct":1,"proof":"Fortunately, we knew there were principles that we could depend on to be effective and unchangeable from the one true expert—God.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “We have lived long enough to see the trends about child rearing…”","paragraphStart":"We have lived long enough to see the trends about child rearing"},{"id":"25-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Certainly, spanking should never be done in anger and should be age appropriate, but do not let some _____  persuade you that Biblical parenting wisdom is passé.”","options":["modern parenting guru","show many tremendous","dad’s favorite sports","absolute best choice"],"correct":0,"proof":"Certainly, spanking should never be done in anger and should be age appropriate, but do not let some modern parenting guru persuade you that Biblical parenting wisdom is passé.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “We are concerned that we see many Christian parents rejecting clear-cut directions…”","paragraphStart":"We are concerned that we see many Christian parents rejecting clear-cut directions"},{"id":"25-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If I had been _____ , I would have been too firm, while Gloria would have been too soft and sentimental.”","options":["young will probably","parenting by myself","enforce those rules","environment how bad"],"correct":1,"proof":"If I had been parenting by myself, I would have been too firm, while Gloria would have been too soft and sentimental.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “You are better as a couple that either of you would be…”","paragraphStart":"You are better as a couple that either of you would be"},{"id":"25-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In areas of opinion it would be better to do something that may not be the _____  than to choose the best option but not be united.”","options":["parenting by myself","show many tremendous","absolute best choice","young will probably"],"correct":2,"proof":"In areas of opinion it would be better to do something that may not be the absolute best choice than to choose the best option but not be united.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “You are better as a couple that either of you would be…”","paragraphStart":"You are better as a couple that either of you would be"},{"id":"25-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Imagine how confused a driver would be if one day it was legal to run a red light, but the _____  got a ticket for running through the same red light.”","options":["way to teach","next day he","gift from God","once a week"],"correct":1,"proof":"Imagine how confused a driver would be if one day it was legal to run a red light, but the next day he got a ticket for running through the same red light.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Don’t change your rules and expectations without a good reason. Being tired…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t change your rules and expectations without a good reason. Being tired"},{"id":"25-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is easier to be consistent if you make as few rules as possible but _____  implicitly.”","options":["enforce those rules","parenting by myself","young will probably","environment how bad"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is easier to be consistent if you make as few rules as possible but enforce those rules implicitly.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Don’t change your rules and expectations without a good reason. Being tired…”","paragraphStart":"Don’t change your rules and expectations without a good reason. Being tired"},{"id":"25-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Jesus says that we cannot be his disciples if we _____  and his kingdom first.”","options":["next day he","way to teach","don’t put God","gift from God"],"correct":2,"proof":"Jesus says that we cannot be his disciples if we don’t put God and his kingdom first.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Jesus says that we cannot be his disciples if we don’t put…”","paragraphStart":"Jesus says that we cannot be his disciples if we don’t put"},{"id":"25-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “What a person says and does is of prime importance in communicating respect, and the person’s tone of voice and body _____  an essential part.”","options":["environment how bad","young will probably","language also play","entire family sits"],"correct":2,"proof":"What a person says and does is of prime importance in communicating respect, and the person’s tone of voice and body language also play an essential part.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “What a person says and does is of prime importance in communicating…”","paragraphStart":"What a person says and does is of prime importance in communicating"},{"id":"25-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Failing to teach obedience to the kids when they are _____  doom you to “reap the whirlwind” in their teen years.”","options":["young will probably","parenting by myself","environment how bad","enforce those rules"],"correct":0,"proof":"Failing to teach obedience to the kids when they are young will probably doom you to “reap the whirlwind” in their teen years.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Obedience is a fundamental building block in anyone building a relationship with…”","paragraphStart":"Obedience is a fundamental building block in anyone building a relationship with"},{"id":"25-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “If you wonder what your child will be as a teenager, _____  at him at two then multiply that by eight, and you have a sixteen-year-old!”","options":["way to teach","once a week","next day he","look"],"correct":3,"proof":"If you wonder what your child will be as a teenager, look at him at two then multiply that by eight, and you have a sixteen-year-old!","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Obedience is a fundamental building block in anyone building a relationship with…”","paragraphStart":"Obedience is a fundamental building block in anyone building a relationship with"},{"id":"25-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Study after study,1 even secular studies, _____  benefits to the kids and the parents, too, of having regular family meals together.”","options":["enforce those rules","absolute best choice","parenting by myself","show many tremendous"],"correct":3,"proof":"Study after study,1 even secular studies, show many tremendous benefits to the kids and the parents, too, of having regular family meals together.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Study after study,1 even secular studies, show many tremendous benefits to the…”","paragraphStart":"Study after study,1 even secular studies, show many tremendous benefits to the"},{"id":"25-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The _____  down at the dinner table for the entire length of the meal, with no TV, no cell phones, and no other distractions.”","options":["environment how bad","language also play","young will probably","entire family sits"],"correct":3,"proof":"The entire family sits down at the dinner table for the entire length of the meal, with no TV, no cell phones, and no other distractions.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Study after study,1 even secular studies, show many tremendous benefits to the…”","paragraphStart":"Study after study,1 even secular studies, show many tremendous benefits to the"},{"id":"25-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “In addition, _____ , we would have a family night, which not only included the meal, but games and other activities.”","options":["next day he","once a week","way to teach","gift from God"],"correct":1,"proof":"In addition, once a week, we would have a family night, which not only included the meal, but games and other activities.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “We learn from 2 Timothy 3:15 that Timothy began learning the scriptures…”","paragraphStart":"We learn from 2 Timothy 3:15 that Timothy began learning the scriptures"},{"id":"25-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is all too common to see parents who try to get their kids to excel in mom or _____  or other activities.”","options":["dad’s favorite sports","absolute best choice","modern parenting guru","show many tremendous"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is all too common to see parents who try to get their kids to excel in mom or dad’s favorite sports or other activities.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “It is all too common to see parents who try to get…”","paragraphStart":"It is all too common to see parents who try to get"},{"id":"25-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is no better _____  it to the kids than for them to experience it firsthand.”","options":["don’t put God","way to teach","gift from God","next day he"],"correct":1,"proof":"Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is no better way to teach it to the kids than for them to experience it firsthand.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is…”","paragraphStart":"Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is"},{"id":"25-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It was not unusual for us to have a couple who we were trying to help with some _____ , or even occasionally someone coming down from a drug high.”","options":["effective and unchangeable","primarily about marriage","dad’s favorite sports","serious marriage problem"],"correct":3,"proof":"It was not unusual for us to have a couple who we were trying to help with some serious marriage problem, or even occasionally someone coming down from a drug high.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is…”","paragraphStart":"Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is"},{"id":"25-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Looking back, this had an unexpected positive benefit to our kids as they were able to see firsthand in a safe _____  life can be when someone doesn’t follow God’s way.”","options":["environment how bad","enforce those rules","parenting by myself","young will probably"],"correct":0,"proof":"Looking back, this had an unexpected positive benefit to our kids as they were able to see firsthand in a safe environment how bad life can be when someone doesn’t follow God’s way.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 25 — paragraph beginning “Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is…”","paragraphStart":"Hospitality is an important part of the Christian life, and there is"}]},{"number":26,"title":"Appreciate the Stages of Marriage","label":"Chapter 26 — Appreciate the Stages of Marriage","questions":[{"id":"26-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as _____ , its jealousy unyielding as the grave.”","options":["strong as death","career and fall","well be longer","school to build"],"correct":0,"proof":"for love is as strong as death,","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — opening scripture, Song of Songs 8:6–7 (line beginning “for love is as strong as death…”)","paragraphStart":"We remember how nervous all of us were the first day 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profound effect on the quality of our marriage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “The psychologist Paul Tournier said, “I’ve been married six times—all to the…”","paragraphStart":"The psychologist Paul Tournier said, “I’ve been married six times—all to the"},{"id":"26-4","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment _____  you to lay the proper groundwork for mutual understanding and realistic expectations.”","options":["issues by preparing","God’s unique gifts","real world outside","joint bank account"],"correct":0,"proof":"By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment issues by preparing you to lay the proper groundwork for mutual understanding and realistic expectations.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment issues…”","paragraphStart":"By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment issues"},{"id":"26-5","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “With these stages in mind, you can _____  it is to begin the process of preparation as early as possible in your marriage.”","options":["real world outside","see how important","plans to sabotage","habits are formed"],"correct":1,"proof":"With these stages in mind, you can see how important it is to begin the process of preparation as early as possible in your marriage.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment issues…”","paragraphStart":"By discussing these stages, we want to help minimize the adjustment issues"},{"id":"26-6","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “God intends to give us unique blessings in each stage, and Satan has his _____  all that God wants to accomplish.”","options":["plans to sabotage","see how important","habits are formed","keep on changing"],"correct":0,"proof":"God intends to give us unique blessings in each stage, and Satan has his plans to sabotage all that God wants to accomplish.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “The starting point in navigating each stage is to remember two basic…”","paragraphStart":"The starting point in navigating each stage is to remember two basic"},{"id":"26-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The first few years are exhilarating as they experience many new “firsts” together; their first apartment, their first Christmas as a married couple, their first _____  and tax return, to name a few.”","options":["real world outside","habits are formed","God’s unique gifts","joint bank account"],"correct":3,"proof":"The first few years are exhilarating as they experience many new “firsts” together; their first apartment, their first Christmas as a married couple, their first joint bank account and tax return, to name a few.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “This is the honeymoon stage. This is the stage that Solomon describes…”","paragraphStart":"This is the honeymoon stage. This is the stage that Solomon describes"},{"id":"26-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Most newlyweds struggle to _____  themselves individually and as a couple, daily time with God and church, with friends and extended family, and work.”","options":["responsibility of caring","balance schedules between","frequency and techniques","guide them throughout"],"correct":1,"proof":"Most newlyweds struggle to balance schedules between themselves individually and as a couple, daily time with God and church, with friends and extended family, and work.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “Most newlyweds struggle to balance schedules between themselves individually and as a…”","paragraphStart":"Most newlyweds struggle to balance schedules between themselves individually and as a"},{"id":"26-9","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Sex should be the gloriously easy and fun part, but most couples should make sure to work out the _____  of pleasing each other.”","options":["frequency and techniques","responsibility of caring","balance schedules between","guide them throughout"],"correct":0,"proof":"Sex should be the gloriously easy and fun part, but most couples should make sure to work out the frequency and techniques of pleasing each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “Most newlyweds struggle to balance schedules between themselves individually and as a…”","paragraphStart":"Most newlyweds struggle to balance schedules between themselves individually and as a"},{"id":"26-10","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The first year of marriage is pivotal in building the proper foundation for what will shape the following years; _____  then that will mold the future relationship.”","options":["God’s unique gifts","habits are formed","see how important","plans to sabotage"],"correct":1,"proof":"The first year of marriage is pivotal in building the proper foundation for what will shape the following years; habits are formed then that will mold the future relationship.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “The first year of marriage is pivotal in building the proper foundation…”","paragraphStart":"The first year of marriage is pivotal in building the proper foundation"},{"id":"26-11","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The thrill of “making” a baby together is one of _____  to a couple. (Of course, not every baby is planned.”","options":["issues by preparing","joint bank account","real world outside","God’s unique gifts"],"correct":3,"proof":"The thrill of “making” a baby together is one of God’s unique gifts to a couple. (Of course, not every baby is planned.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “Introducing children into the marriage mix is tremendously exciting. The thrill of…”","paragraphStart":"Introducing children into the marriage mix is tremendously exciting. The thrill of"},{"id":"26-12","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Parents can feel overwhelmed with the _____  for a child, as well as with their loss of privacy and freedom.”","options":["responsibility of caring","balance schedules between","frequency and techniques","guide them throughout"],"correct":0,"proof":"Parents can feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of caring for a child, as well as with their loss of privacy and freedom.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “The move to parenthood from the honeymoon stage is a giant leap…”","paragraphStart":"The move to parenthood from the honeymoon stage is a giant leap"},{"id":"26-13","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “You must avoid the all-to common temptation for the father to retreat into his _____  into the role of “workaholic” while the mother assumes the “nurturing” role.”","options":["career and fall","strong as death","school to build","well be longer"],"correct":0,"proof":"You must avoid the all-to common temptation for the father to retreat into his career and fall into the role of “workaholic” while the mother assumes the “nurturing” role.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “You must avoid the all-to common temptation for the father to retreat…”","paragraphStart":"You must avoid the all-to common temptation for the father to retreat"},{"id":"26-14","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “That is what parenting is all about: preparing our kids to thrive in the _____  of the safety of our home.”","options":["God’s unique gifts","joint bank account","real world outside","habits are formed"],"correct":2,"proof":"That is what parenting is all about: preparing our kids to thrive in the real world outside of the safety of our home.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of…”","paragraphStart":"We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of"},{"id":"26-15","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “And, hopefully helping them grow a faith in God that will _____  their life adventure.”","options":["issues by preparing","real world outside","guide them throughout","frequency and techniques"],"correct":2,"proof":"And, hopefully helping them grow a faith in God that will guide them throughout their life adventure.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of…”","paragraphStart":"We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of"},{"id":"26-16","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “It is so important during these years at _____  effective, open communication for the entire family.”","options":["school to build","keep on changing","career and fall","strong as death"],"correct":0,"proof":"It is so important during these years at school to build effective, open communication for the entire family.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of…”","paragraphStart":"We remember how nervous all of us were the first day of"},{"id":"26-17","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For most couples, this is the longest stage in terms of years, and may _____  than all of the other stages combined.”","options":["school to build","well be longer","lost both sets","career and fall"],"correct":1,"proof":"For most couples, this is the longest stage in terms of years, and may well be longer than all of the other stages combined.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “We will not say very much about the empty nest in this…”","paragraphStart":"We will not say very much about the empty nest in this"},{"id":"26-18","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “For us, during this stage we _____  of parents, and Gloria has had to deal with stage four cancer.”","options":["well be longer","career and fall","school to build","lost both sets"],"correct":3,"proof":"For us, during this stage we lost both sets of parents, and Gloria has had to deal with stage four cancer.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “We will not say very much about the empty nest in this…”","paragraphStart":"We will not say very much about the empty nest in this"},{"id":"26-19","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The two of us look at it as our adventure which has _____  for more than five and a half decades.”","options":["lasted","step","well be longer","way we adapt"],"correct":0,"proof":"The two of us look at it as our adventure which has lasted for more than five and a half decades.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “Circumstances will vary for each couple as you take this journey through…”","paragraphStart":"Circumstances will vary for each couple as you take this journey through"},{"id":"26-20","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “God has gone with us each step of the way, and each _____  has made us more in love with him and with each other.”","options":["lasted","way we adapt","well be longer","step"],"correct":3,"proof":"God has gone with us each step of the way, and each step has made us more in love with him and with each other.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 26 — paragraph beginning “Circumstances will vary for each couple as you take this journey through…”","paragraphStart":"Circumstances will vary for each couple as you take this journey through"}]},{"number":27,"title":"Enjoy the Empty Nest","label":"Chapter 27 — Enjoy the Empty Nest","questions":[{"id":"27-1","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Staci, our oldest was about to _____  year of college 1500 miles away from home and this was an exciting time for the whole family.”","options":["surrender our lives","begin her freshman","college or working","life remains once"],"correct":1,"proof":"Staci, our oldest was about to begin her freshman year of college 1500 miles away from home and this was an exciting time for the whole family.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 27 — paragraph beginning “We had been looking forward to this day for a long time.…”","paragraphStart":"We had been looking forward to this day for a long time."},{"id":"27-2","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “The four of us said our good-byes to _____  into the car for the long drive home.”","options":["result in worry","move back home","Staci and piled","filled with rich"],"correct":2,"proof":"The four of us said our good-byes to Staci and piled into the car for the long drive home.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 27 — paragraph beginning “We had been looking forward to this day for a long time.…”","paragraphStart":"We had been looking forward to this day for a long time."},{"id":"27-3","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Each time one left for college, we _____  in our family, especially when we looked at their empty chair at the dinner table.”","options":["money to help","move 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good beginning.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 27 — paragraph beginning “Hopefully, by this point in life your mate is already your best…”","paragraphStart":"Hopefully, by this point in life your mate is already your best"},{"id":"27-7","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Forgiving old hurts and resentments is a necessary _____  the marriage that God wants us to have.”","options":["pursuing these ventures","step towards building","heard at inopportune","surrender our lives"],"correct":1,"proof":"Forgiving old hurts and resentments is a necessary step towards building the marriage that God wants us to have.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 27 — paragraph beginning “Communicate on a vulnerable level, sharing your important thoughts and feelings regularly;…”","paragraphStart":"Communicate on a vulnerable level, sharing your important thoughts and feelings regularly;"},{"id":"27-8","text":"Complete this statement from the chapter: “Regardless of whether our kids are in _____  in a distant country, with modern technology we are just a cell call, text, or FaceTime away.”","options":["college or working","surrender our lives","life remains once","begin her freshman"],"correct":0,"proof":"Regardless of whether our kids are in college or working in a distant country, with modern technology we are just a cell call, text, or FaceTime away.","reference":"EPUB, Chapter 27 — paragraph beginning “Parenting does not stop when the kids leave home. 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